My ex started to come back around last week and we kept it friendly. Then she came over to my house and we were laying on the couch and she got feely, got mad at herself as she has a man she claims to want to marry and left quickly but kept calling me. Two days later she asked to come back over and we ended up in bed and things got really hot and heavy.. My question is should I feel it is my fault for doing these things knowing she has a boyfriend? I am still single but wonder if I should allow her to come over anymore or if she is still going to be calling me what I should do? Opinions and advice welcomed!!!
2007-05-10 19:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Delicate situation. I'm normally a bit more sensitive, but in this case I would say that her relationship is her responsibility, so have fun. It's not quite as simple as that though- if she's going to be messing around behind her bfs back, shes going to do it. If its not with you, it will be someone else. At least you know that you're clean (presumably). However, it's important to keep it that way; Let everything be her move, let her take the initiative. This way, you aren't putting yourself in the middle of her relationship, and it keeps you from "going to o far."
The exception to this is if she is dating someone that you know and respect. In that case, turn her away.
2007-05-10 19:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by smashcruiserarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what your looking for. last month i was messing around with a girl who had a boyfriend and i LOVED the thrill we almost got caught twice but she broke up with him and for some reason that meant the end of us messing around? if your looking for a serious relationship then dont let her come over because it will only bring bad but if you just want some p*ussy then by all means invite her if there is no emotional attachment then everyone is happy
2007-05-10 19:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
greater effective the devil you comprehend!!!! She's for sure very mushy with you, & could love you yet, isn't in love with you!!! that's achieveable to 'fool around' with an ex only for convenience. be happy that she nevertheless must be with you always yet, she would be able to ultimately bypass away. appreciate the 2nd 'cos it won't final. Take your weekend for what it grow to be, merely a sprint of relaxing between 2 single human beings
2016-10-15 08:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you and wanted to see if it was still chemical reactive. Maybe she wanted to roll around in the hay because she feels like it's the last time before the marriage thing. Maybe
she wanted to feel safe. She called you ok. How do you feel towards her? Is it just sex, or their feelings too. It takes to tangle but why do it if their taken? You're kinda asking for trouble.
2007-05-10 19:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'd say enjoy it while you can. It might not be the most respectable thing to do, but you can't really be the one to blame if she's calling you and asking to come over...she sounds like she likes you better than him anyway. Maybe his johnson doesn't measure up? lol
2007-05-10 19:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by someguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're single. Therefore you can do whatever the hell you want. The fact that she's fooling around is her issue and her issue alone. It's not your job to make sure she stays faithful. Although sexing her up could be a fun job.
2007-05-10 19:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by dumdum4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is having what we call a fling and at your expence. as far as fault well both are at faul on this matter she is planning on getting married. if she does this before marrage she will still do it common sence. as for calling you tell her you dont fool with other persons girlfrinds you be a lot healther in the long run. in my opion?
2007-05-10 19:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not your fault never regret it and if her bf comes around tell him it was nothing and yes when she calls let her over just get out of the house like picnics or other things
2007-05-10 19:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally not your fault. she is he one who is putting you and herself in a bad position. you probably shouldnt let her come around though anymore because she's just playing with you and her boyfriend, karma, dont do onto others what you wouldnt want done to you.
2007-05-10 19:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by kchilian85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like this guy, then stop, and tell him what happened. he will be mad at you, but its her fault. if you hate him, then keep doing it if you really do like her, or whatever. but the person thatn is to blame, is her. she should be able to control herself. but in my opinion, even if you dont know the guy, politely tell him about it, do not rub it in his face though.
2007-05-10 19:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋