I wanna ask her but is it a stupid idea?

Question

So my ex has been calling me up a bit more than often now since she broke up with her ex. Every time she always tells me to have no one over and she's wants to chill and watch a movie or something.

We usually sit on this couch in my room and sometimes were talking and we just look into each others eyes and it always reminds me of the first time we had sex. She look into my eyes for so long and it just drives me crazy for her.

I feel like she still has something for me but I'm unsure and dont wanna screw our great friendship over by her thinking I just want some.

Answer 1

There is more to life and relationships than sex. You have to consider whether you can have a friendship with her that doesn't include sex. If you can, then pursue the friendship and don't push sex.

If she wants sex that will eventually come out and you can decide how to handle it then.

Sex is a nice thing, but friendship is better. It lasts longer, has fewer risks, and fewer frustrations.

Answer 2

If she is calling you more often it could be one of two things..she could just be really comfortable around you and wants to hang out. Either that, she might realize what she had and she's thinking the same thing you are...you need to just be honest with her. Ask her if she still has feelings for you, if she says no, just play it off. If she says yeah, tell her how you feel and don't try to have sex with her 2 seconds later ;) If she's telling you to have nobody else over I think you already have your answer. Good luck!

Answer 3

If it happens, it happens. If she wants to hang out and be alone with you, let it happen. If you like her, and want her, take it slow, and see where it goes. Perhaps you and her can get back together, and maby fix whatever made you break up the first time. Though it is very important to keep in mind she just got out of a relationship. She could be simply using you to try and get over her ex... so maby talking to her will help. Regardless, good luck!

Answer 4

if you two really have an honest relationship then you can just ask her how she feels about you.

but of course nobody likes answering sensative questions like that, so be straight foward but don't be confronting about it. try a calm open approach about the idea, and listen more than talk because if she has somthing to say, it will be important.

and she probably already knows you want her, try to e-mail me back any other reason why a woman looks into your eyes in such a manner. she will probably take it to offence if you ask in a blatant way. ask "Relationship" questions.

Answer 5

first of you cant be friends with an ex, if you think you can goodluck, she just broke up with her ex, so shes probably calling you so she can have someone there. girls feel the need to be wanted all the time, and you're probably just a rebound, so if you know you're not going to be friends and you still like her, you have nothing to loose by trying to some, maybe thats what shes looking for.

Answer 6

you said that shes telling you that she has no one over and she wants to chill and watch a movie or something and from this i can see that shes just feeling alone and wants to atleast spend the time with you and ofcourse yeah being ex lovers u guys sure would feel something as you are not bro and sistas..it doesnt looks like she deeply loves you or anything. she jsut needs you at this time i didnt mean shes selfish or anything

Answer 7

It only takes so long for friends to think of others sexually. In this case you've already been intitmate so that time is shortened even more. Ask her if she would consider rekindling that part but tell her advance it's ok if she's not because either way you're in a win win situation.

Answer 8

go for it mate, no need to care about friendship! Sex won't harm it at all