And discuss her Ex-husbands martial problems?
2007-05-10 18:29:08 · 24 answers · asked by jnnfchar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope this is a joke question! If it isn't I guess I'll be safe and say ABSOLUTELY NOT, IT IS NOT OK. Get over him and focus on your own marriage before you need someone to talk to about your marital problems. Sorry if I sound harsh, but I'm just being real here.
2007-05-10 18:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Uh No!
If My Wife Did That, I Would Probably Think Long And Hard About Leaving Her, Cuz Obviously She Hasn't Gotten Over Ex, Why Would She Want To Be With Her Ex Just To Talk About His Problems, Can He Not Find Someone Else To Care? And Wheres Her Married Husband? Is He Not With Her, Cuz Something Will Go Down If He Wasn't Even Invited! Yeah, I Would Have A Big Time Problem With That!
2007-05-10 18:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by J.K.B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What?? NO, the man should be discussing his problems with his current wife. If the wife found out, it could make things worse (for the man and his current wife).
Besides, why would you want to socialize with your ex-husband anyway? What do you expect from continuing a spoiled relationship?
Turn the question around - "Do you think it's OK for my husband to have lunch with his ex-wife and discuss our marital problems?"
I'm guessing that most wives wouldn't appreciate their husbands discussing their marital problems with his ex.
2007-05-10 18:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I agee suitable for him to break off the friendship , it has no place on your marriage...he could be retaining up the touch when you consider that he has some doubt which you 2 will stay jointly and if not he has her to fall back on...you have been top in each and every difficulty you probably did...he has to coach you which you are the main necessary difficulty to him in his life...the full texting difficulty is amazingly beside the point and entire disrespects you as his significant different...in case you think of this could finally force a wedge between the two one in all then you definitely get some scientific take care of the the two one in all...which isn't undesirable suggestion ...your subject is undemanding and helping to advance your relationship must be significant to the the two one in all you without questions or hesitations...solid luck.
2017-01-09 15:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong. I am divorced and if I ever get married again and find myself needing marital advice, I will not go to someone who also has a failed marriage. I would seek out someone who is in a marriage and who has found ways to make it work.
Meeting your ex for lunch is a slippery slope, even if the new spouses know about it.
The only time you should meet with your spouse is in court for child support modifications.
Sometimes it is easy to get caught up in the past and the fact that the ex is someone that you were once comfortable enough to spend your life with, you might find yourself fantasizing about the person you were once in love with even though you are no longer in love with them. I think it would be a dangerous position to put yourself in.
2007-05-10 18:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's what marriage counsellors are for.
The fact that you're asking hints that your present husband isn't agreeable to this idea. Your ex's wife probably isn't hot on the idea, either.
For good reason. Seeing your ex will interfere with your present marriages.
Your ex doesn't need your opinion or input -- he needs to see a professional counsellor -- with or without his wife.
2007-05-10 18:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by joe b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - i find that strange.
How can an ex-wife help with his current problems when their marriage didn't last the distance.
It would also be extremely hurtful to the wife to find out that he discusses their business with his ex!! That is a big no-no
2007-05-10 18:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
its ok to have lunch, its also ok to discuss their ex husbands marital problem...what is not ok..if they have each other for lunch....and resolve her ex husbands problem in bed
2007-05-10 18:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by not_ez_2bme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! His problems are his now. Stay out of it. UNLESS you take your husband with you and all 3 of you discuss things. Yeah, that's what I thought!
2007-05-10 18:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes ex partners become very good friends , if there kids, it the best ways for them , to show them that parents still get along after d i v o r c e
2007-05-10 18:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋