I'm having a hard time forgiving the person who shot my cousin five months ago. First of all, it was his daughter, and they are doing her trials around this time. She is only looking forward to like 3 years. I just want to be able to forgive her, even though what she did was horrible. I'm just struggling to cope with everything. Any suggestions?
2007-05-10 17:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the way i see it, is that i know its hard to forgive especially in your situation. and im sorry. but i look at it like we ahve to forgive ppl. i beleive in the bible and in the bible it says we must be willing and easy to forgive. and God forgives us when we sin. i mean thats how i see it. i know its hard, but i think that you just have to dig way down deep in your heart and tell her that you forgive her, dont wait to see if she asks for forgiveness. by telling her that you could change her heart. hopefully this helps amanda. again im sorry for you loss.
2007-05-11 10:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by numba1stunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by whisman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be very hard to forgive her until or unless she shows remorse. It has not been very long since your cousin was killed so you may have to wait for her trial to be over and for her to be sentenced before you can work on forgiving her. I hope for her sake and yours that she is remorseful.
I am sorry for the loss of your cousin.
2007-05-10 17:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his daughter shot him then she is your cousin too. I guess it would depend on why she shot him. it's never okay to shoot someone but she may have felt as though she had a reason. just remember, you never know what really goes on in someone's house unless you live there...even if they are family. maybe if you can figure out why she did it then you can find it in your heart to forgive her.
2007-05-10 17:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by doddswolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only you will know inside yourself when and if you are
ready to forgive this person. it will take some time
to get to this stage, but you will get there. everyone
needs time to heal and everyone is different on how
long it will take. so don't pressure yourself on some-
thing you are not ready for. i am also sorry to hear
that happened to a family member of yours. i hope
everything is ok now. and if not i give you my
sympathies to you and the family,,,,,, give yourself
time , it will come to you... take care.........
2007-05-10 17:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋