Usually my bf calls me to say good night but last night he sent a message to say goodn'ght, i love you. I then called him... after all was said, i said i love you expecting him to say i love you too as usual but he said thank you. When i asked him to say it he refused, saying he had said it in the message. Now i dont want to pick up his calls, am i being childish
2007-05-10 21:23:36 · 18 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-10 21:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very childish! Never ask someone to tell them they love you, it will never be heart felt and you'll only be disappointed. It's what your boyfriend does for you & the emotions he shows you that really matter, not the fact that he won't say three words when you need to hear them.
The phrase 'I love you' is used so casually & carelessly these days that it seems to be losing it's meaning. I feel so sorry for guys that get pestered to say this. It'll only push them away.
If you love him & yourself enough, then this shouldn't be a problem. Just say sorry and get on with your relationship. Why waste time fighting when you could be having fun?
Now go and make up!
:)
2007-05-10 21:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by earthaintdying 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he's just saying that to pull ur leg ???
as long as he does love u , y bother if he fail to say - i love u - for just one single conversation ??
ever heard bout a song call - more than word ??
to shoe he love u is not just carry that 3 words with him all the time , but the way he treats u .
give that poor guy a chance & answer his call :)
2007-05-10 21:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by paranoiac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you, maybe he also acting childish.. so maybe he wanted to say something that YOU REALLY WANT TO HEAR.. So, cmon, pick up the phone!!
2007-05-10 21:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by wan_rex0112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you are being a bit childish and that you are both playing games to an extent.
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2007-05-10 21:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him to say things you want to hear. if you do he gon refuse and you will be hurt. i dont want to be pushed as well. let me say what i feel n not what you want me to say, if you continue actin like this u will push him away. u know he loves u sooooo...
2007-05-10 21:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by mister m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Snap!
2007-05-10 21:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Clint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, grow up love!
2007-05-10 21:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes!! if you know he truly loves you, i suppose even when he doesnt said it or text you in words, you will know
and if he doesnt truly love you, even if he always hang those words on his lip, it doesnt value anything
give more, demand less :)
2007-05-10 21:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by puzzlesw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... where was he and why didnt he want to say it. Was he with a group of friends so embarrassed to say it??
2007-05-10 21:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋