I like a guy I like everything about him, I think hes handsome, clever, funny, beautiful, kind, caring, witty just perfect! But im not attracted to him hes just my favourite person in the whole world and Im not attracted to him enough to be with him.
what does this mean? Will I eventually like him? Do i just see him as a friend? My friend told me that I definately like him because I want to be around him all the time and get jealous when other girls talk to him.
im confused!
2007-05-10 21:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by klara c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same situation a while back. He was everything you said but just could not like him, we were friends for 3 years, then one day i woke up and just had feeling for him, dont know why. We ended up dating for 4 years. We have broken up now but i dont regret it, i had fun and best is he is still my best friend
2007-05-10 21:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by jolene c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you like him in some way, especially since you get jealous over him. take a step back and think about it, do you really like him, and you deny it because you are scared of what that might mean for the relationship, or do you not like him, just see him as a great guy friend who will be good for someone someday. if it's the second one, stop your jealousy before it starts, and be there for him like a good friend. if it's the first, start taking the steps toward a relationship with him yourself.
2007-05-10 21:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what your friend has told, if its true. hes' the guy. Go for it. If you don't feel attracted to him. Wait it will come, but not long as good guys are taken fast.
May be date him one or more times and you would know ur exact feelings for him..
cheers
2007-05-10 21:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Akar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just like the attention that he gives you. You are not being fair to him by getting jealous of other girls. He should be allowed to find someone that will want to be with him. If you don't give him that opportunity, you are being selfish!
2007-05-10 21:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like him, then you aint got a right to be jealous.
maybe a lil protective, but not jealous
i have a friend and i lov him. . .we are very close and its never crossed that line
we have "slumber parties" and **** lie that but never been intimate. . .he is my favorite guy friend. . .love him but not in love with him and dont have that intention
so. . .in a nutshell. . .you have feeling if you are "jealous"
2007-05-10 22:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by jessika2387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋