It's been 4 months since by ex took a break from the relationship to work on personal problems of his own (see my previous questions for full details). I let him know repeatedly that I am here for him if he needs anything. Well it's been about a month now since I've had any contact with him at all because I am trying to give him his space. He recently posted a blog stating (cryptically) that he has been thinking about me a lot lately, and that I have been the inspiration for a lot of songs that hes been writing for his band. If he is thinking about me that much, I figure there has got to be something there. He was burned VERY badly by his ex, I don't know if he just got a little freaked out because he started developing feelings for me and it started getting serious? But I just don't know if I should try to contact him, or continue to wait for him to come back to me? I know I should probably wait until he's ready to come back to me, but I don't want him to think that I dont care...
2007-05-10 11:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is very simple.Get a very soft,comfortable,easy chair and wait.Perhaps, some day the guy will call you.I'm sorry.You should know by now that is over.Think about this.He is with the band.Chances are ( I had a band too) that all the girls are chasing him and the other members ( natural,female reaction).So, in the end.you;re wasting your time.
2007-05-13 16:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋