To cut a long story short, the love of my life has recently walked back in after 15years apart. In this time we have both moved on and created seperate families. We initially parted due to him being bisexual curious, 2 years later i did find out he had seen this through and carried on with this man for many years. He now claims he made a mistake about his sexuality and to give him his dues he has a legitamate family to prove this. We bumped into each other a few months ago by sheer coincidence, and for both, our feelings have rekindled. We are both still in our previous relationships and have no feelings for our partners whatsoever. I cannot leave as my husband is rich and i am very materialistic. What can i do????
2007-05-10 11:38:11 · 28 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was starting to feel quite sorry for your situation until your last sentence! Still, at least you're honest enough to admit it, so hats off for that.
Seriously though, you appear to have answered your own question....
2007-05-10 11:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lily & Stu Too 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to dis u ... but you've got to be $%!#ing kidding me. This guy is obviously a homosexual... confused ... and unstable as far as relationships are concerned.
The love of your live? Yeah not when you are sharing it ... and u will be because guess what u don't have the one thing that he seems to like also... yow he's bi
This part here is my opinionated advice "take it or leave it"
There's nothing wrong with having feelings for "someone" in your past ... just "and this hold no water if you can't in all honesty say from within your heart of hearts my husband loves me" never forget who committed to building a life with you. Cheat ha ... for a switch hitter ... how long do u think you're going to stay in the game?
When you're alone at night ... and you will be remember ...no lament what you had built and ask your self why y did i destroy ... humm ...
As I said take it or leave it
2007-05-10 16:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by collin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings ? You haven't got feelings you're just a self centred
c u n t. You deserve to contract HIV Aids from this a r s e bandit so go ahead and do the world of decent people a favour but don't pass any risk to the one you're gold digging off. Anyway being second fiddle to a man's a r s e twice is some honour, so you are in the right place for what you are really worth. You sly weak spineless **** ...go up front and tell the other man where you are at and then sod off to your turd burglar and get into your dirty darkness together. Great evil minds stink alike !
2007-05-10 11:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Toffo 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
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2015-01-26 00:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion, but you're better off leaving this dude in the past where you left him. He's been more confused than a termite in a wooden yoyo for most of his life it seems. If you're not happy with your husband, move on....is material living worth more to you than happiness? Cuz that's the trade, honey. But if you do move on, I don't think this guy you're speaking of is a good catch at all. Be his friend, but you're better off leaving it at that.
2007-05-10 11:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats that song... " secret lovers" " Me and mrs. jones!! Ur feelings arent to strong because ur still willing to screw ur dude at night. And im assuming the old flames not rich but havent u heard that wifey's get half. go do some homework!!
2007-05-10 11:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by beachie909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in your marriage and looking to jump ship, perhaps you should! but not into another relationship, you need time to find 'you' and discover what you need to enjoy life, only then will you be able to settle into a worthwhile relationship.
2007-05-11 07:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by gary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run from that guy, hon... Never see the dude again, and no, he aint the love of your life, .... what he is and what you wish he were aren't the same...... but then, this is a joke, so, hahahahaha
Nothing else to do this evening???? Me either We're waiting for company to get here so we can all go to the symphany.
2007-05-10 12:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would keep the rich guy over the bi guy any day of the week. Just because he has a "legitimate" family does not make him unbi.
2007-05-10 11:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting peoples time with this sort of crap. Do you really have so litttle to do that you just put these question on for kicks. Get over yourself!
2007-05-14 07:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by meep meep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋