In lieu of traditional gifts, any help with moving expenses would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance!
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In lieu of traditional gifts, a monetary contribution to help with relocating would be most appreciated.
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Monetary gifts of any size would be considered a huge blessing to start the couple's new life on the right foot!
2007-05-10 23:48:27
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answered by datgirl88 4
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There is no way at all. You don't even ask for gifts. People don't HAVE to bring gifts or money to a wedding.
The best bet is to not have them register anywhere. And if people ask explain that they have all the home items they need. Many people will give money instead on their own, some will bring gifts just because that's what they perfer. Either way, they should accept everything they get graciously.
2007-05-11 05:26:37
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answered by layla983 5
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If I had a nickel for every time I saw this question asked, I would be a very, very wealthy woman.
There is no polite way to ask for money. None. It doesn't matter if you phrase it in a "clever" or "cutesy" verse. Putting the request out to give money is tantamount to begging. Any mention of gifts should not be anywhere near a wedding invitation.
Everyone would "prefer" to receive money as a wedding gift. However, as a recipient of a gift, you're not in a position to tell people what to give you. Gifts come from the heart. Even if they register for items, that's no guarantee they'll receive it. When a guest is giving a gift, it's done out of love for the recipient, and they're going to give you what they want to.
2007-05-11 03:13:09
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answered by sylvia 6
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The most tactful way to do this is to 1)Absolutely NOT put anything on the invitation saying anything about gifts or money, 2)they won't register, 3)if people ASK what to give, then tell them the situation but always end the conversation with "but gift or no gift, we just look forward to seeing you there!
You can't tell people what to buy you as a gift...that's the point of a gift! Giving a wedding gift isn't a requirement, it's just polite. But if they really insist on getting money instead of wedding presents, then do it the old fashioned way....by word of mouth.
2007-05-11 02:10:48
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answered by emrobs 5
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Do not write it on any invitation..you dont want people to think they are required to pay to come to your wedding. The only way to get the word out is by word of mouth. Have your mother and soon to be mother in law tell family (Only if they ask) that you guys would prefer money, because there is nothing you really need. But, thats the most polite and effective way.
2007-05-14 15:48:59
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answered by Linzy Brooke 3
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This is a frequently asked question...and while I understand your daughter's position, here is the honest answer:
It is never well accepted to ask for money. Never. No matter how beautiful a poem you use or how politely written you make the request, it is offensive to give the impression that people need to pay to come to your party.
If the bride and groom do not need "stuff", then registering for people to help with the cost of their honeymoon is a good option...but do not list the registry in the invitation. Word of Mouth through the bridal party and family is the best way to share this info. There should never be mention of gifts or money in the invitation.
In my own case, I have a wedding webpage through "TheKnot.com". In my invitation, I will give the option of RSVP via phone, or through my wedding webpage, and I will list the address of the webpage. My wedding webpage also has links to my honeymoon registration and the bridal registry for a few small items, but none of that will be mentioned in the Invite.
My fiance and I are also pre-established with homes and furnishings, but it is always a good idea to register for a few tangible things for the people who prefer purchasing a physical gift. Other than the honeymoon, I've registered for the things you never stop needing....Towels, sheets...things like that.
2007-05-11 01:13:49
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answered by Kat 5
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it truly is impolite and shabby to on the instant out ask for money. presents of any variety are in no thank you to be stated in an invitation. the only thank you to ask for money is for the two contraptions of mum and dad, and the marriage party to unfold the information by using mouth. Edit: container of affection??? it truly is cheesy too. It won't take long to unfold the information in case you're purely having 25 people. additionally, if it truly is happening very quickly, and you have no longer sent the invites yet, it feels like a shotgun wedding ceremony, wherein case maximum persons provide your cash besides, because of the fact they don't have time to certainly purchase you something. in case you're purely having 25 travelers, they might desire to all understand which you're shifting, and hence likely won't purchase you a textile present. the two way, be extremely joyful with what you get. no person is obliged to grant presents.
2016-12-17 09:52:58
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answered by money 4
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Their is not polite way to say that as it is totally rude. As much as I know it is more practical in their situation, they can't dictate what people do with their hard-earned time and money.
I hope you aren't intending on addressing gifts in the invitation as well, thats just plain rude, as it makes it look as if they are expecting gifts (and while yea they will get them) It's rude to blatantly ask for them. The invitation is to invite people to celebrate their union, not to indicate gift preference of solicit them.
I think the best way to address this is to not register, and when people ask (and believe me they will-just got married and people bugged the snot out of me asking what I wanted!) just mention the situation politlely and say considering the circumstances, if you wouldn't mind giving money or gift cards, they would really appreciate that more than anything.
Hope it helps!
2007-05-11 04:26:05
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answered by ASH 6
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Money is normally the preferred gift for Weddings. Nothing need be said. If you only want guest to give money or not come. There is no polite way of asking that.
2007-05-10 23:48:51
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answered by ? 6
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Most likely everyone will bring money. Another option would be for the bride and groom to register at less-traditional stores, such as Pottery Barn, Best Buy, or Home Depot, for things they would need to fix up their new home.
2007-05-11 05:34:38
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answered by thornfield8998 3
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There is ABSOLUTELY NO POLITE WAY TO BEG FOR CASH.
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Perhaps at some point during the reception, the bride can don an old overcoat, sunglasses, a tin cup w/ two nickles and can shake it in the middle of the dance floor. Also, give her a cardboard sign - "WILL DANCE FOR CASH."
2007-05-11 03:48:10
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answered by Vicki B 5
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