me and this guy that i really like have been txting 4 a while but 3 days ago he told me he really liked me. i told him not 2 say things he doesnt mean and not 2say things just 4 the sake of it. he said that he did mean it . Then i told him that i was sorry for bein mean about it and i explained 2 him that its my way of protectin myself from guys coz sometimes I duno wat 2 believe and thats just the way that I am. He didnt reply. THen the nite after I apolagised again and said that I was only trying 2 explain and it was stupid and I had no idea what hes thinking and that I thought about him all day, which was true. He still didnt reply.
Now i dunno whether 2 just leave him, coz Ive already tried 2 sort it out and apolagise and he should star the convo now, or whether I just start a normal convo and not bring it up.
But I'm worried that if I do start a normal convo he wont reply. Wat do u think hes thinking and wat is ur honest opinion about it all? What should I do?
2007-05-10 22:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is taking time to think about what you said. Men do not understand women. Sometimes I don't think that we understand ourselves. Just explain that you have been hurt before and you really don't want to go through that again.
2007-05-10 22:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your coming on way too strong. You may have scared him off. He might not want a full on relationship. Just be yourself start dating and see where it goes. Guys dont like neurotic and insecure girls. Just have fun and go with the flow. Act like everythings normal and dont said any more texts and dont apologise it will make you seem to needy. Just chill out
2007-05-10 22:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, i think u screwed the boot on this one, dont take offense but sounds like u need to lighten up a little cuz i for one am i a guy who will just let it out and say i like someone eslse and if a girl said that out right again no offense this is just advice take it or leave it but lighten up, loosen up, but also, u may have pissed him off and he may be over u, its up to u on how long u want to keep trying but good luck, either way, good luck
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2007-05-10 22:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by AirsoftDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try sending him just a normal text and see what he says.
2007-05-10 22:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by FaeryLady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably didn't want to hear all that, all he wanted to hear you say was that you liked him too.
if you DO like him simply tell him you like him, and you wanna be together. if he still doesn't respond he's already moved on.
2007-05-10 22:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by dallas movie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are to be a mad?
2007-05-10 22:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Naresh K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋