This married guy lives as a paying guest at my friend's house.In the absence of his wife(gone to live with her in-laws as she was pregant) he somehow manage to maintain very good n sexual relationship with my friend n promised to give divorce to her wife and marry her.But after his wife's arrival wid a baby he totally changed and now hez not entertaining my friend at all.She can't tell her parents too about all this bcoz he have very good impression in their eyes n really want to throw that guy out of her home.His wife knows about all this but don't want to accept the fact n believes that her husband is right.What should my friend do??She can't take a bold step........
2007-05-10 22:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend would be best off by stopping the relationship, defn not good to break up a marriage when a kid's involved. Why would she want to be with someone who cheats on his pregnant wife? Even if he left his wife, sooner or later, he'll step out behind your friend's back and fool around on HER. If they still live with her, then kick 'em out. No sense in keeping bad news on the doorstep.
2007-05-10 22:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tony K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I can answer this the best!
Well ur friend was very stupid to get into a relationship with a married man even after knowing his wife was pregnant.
In a way she tried to spoil the life of that woman. It was wrong of her to get into a sexual relationship with a married man and encouraging him to give divorce to his pregnant wife.
I think ur friend deserve this. In this type of cases people often shift the blame on the girl.
And in this case even I find ur friend to be foolish.
She cant do anythingas she have no proofs.
Tell her to forget it and move on.
And next time be carfeul and stay way from married men.
Good luck to her.
2007-05-10 22:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never get involved with a married man!!
He has a kid and a wife, so where did your friend think she would fit in?!?
Free sex while the wife is a way is all it was and all it could ever be.
Your friend can either spill the beans to her parents and look bad in front of them, or she can lick her wounds and get over it until he moves out.
Case closed.
2007-05-10 22:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by NK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was wrong to be fooling around with a married man, and she deserves anything that she gets. I am sorry, I have not an ounce of pity for her or her situation.
He just wanted sex until his wife got back. She should have realized that men will say anything to get into a women's pants, and that is just what he did.
2007-05-10 22:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend in the first place, should not have allowed him to have close relationship with her, in the absence of his wife. It is obvious that the man was taking undue advantage of her innocence and deriving pleasure by having sex. Ask your friend to be more careful in establishing relationship in future with any other man. I do not say that all men are such, but it is better to be cautious.
2007-05-10 22:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's an asshole for deceiving his wife while she was carrying is child, what would anyone expect ? he was having fun and now when his family returned he's returned back to them - I believe that he should be shown as the deceiving and dis-honest man that he is - so what if they kick him out? that's the least he deserves.
He should have thought of the consequences of his actions first.
2007-05-10 22:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to back off this guy. he's jerk and once a cheater always a cheater...besides..
HE'S FRIKKEN MARRIED AND IS A *FATHER* NOW!!!
I give your friend the thumbs down for judgement. 1. that's gross. 2. can't see (can't YOU) see that it was all sex??? She needs to get him out of the house and go on with a normal life. And if your friend is underage make sure he's OUT.
2007-05-10 22:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she made a mess, now she has to deal with it.
She is a home wrecker for sleeping with the guy
2007-05-10 22:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Gatekeeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should tell her parents that she wants him gone because shes been getting boned by him in her sleep
2007-05-10 22:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by bobbyflye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first thing.... stop calling this person your friend.. we all know its you.
If his wife knows and hasnt divorsed him, then there's nothing more that can be done.
2007-05-10 22:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by wiccan140684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋