i like this guy and he says he likes me. but hes starting to show a sexual interest. and hes hot so of course i would have at least a little sexual interest in him too. should i just have it with him or make him try dating first? i dont want to make the mistake of losing my virginity with an a-$-$
2007-05-13 16:10:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u could do it without dating but also r u sure he is clean like no STD's or if he already has a girl friend.
2007-05-13 16:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date first.
You need to get to know him first, plus you don't want to ad up your number of guys just "yet" Because you are going to meet lots and lots of guys in the future. So I would give it at least one month of dating before sex. If he is worth it then great if not, you didn't much.
2007-05-13 16:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great idea! I think you should do it. Just think of the esteem and trust you would build. He would think so much of you if it was that easy to get into your pants. And if you managed to have a relationship with him, imagine how much he would trust you if some of your friends were guys. In all seriousness, you show respect for yourself if you don't just give it up at the drop of a hat. He won't have respect for you if YOU don't have respect for yourself. Okay, now I'll come down from the pulpit.
2007-05-13 16:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously date first. dont rush into things too fast. Make sure you lose your virginity to someone who is worth it and who you repect. Dont make the mistake of rushing things with your first. I did and I know now that I was just a foolish child. You dont want to have that reaction after you sleep with him
2007-05-13 16:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your question. You just said "I don't want to make the mistake of losing my virginity with an ***." So don't. You're already second-guessing yourself, you already have doubt, so you definitely shouldn't just go all out for him. Take things a little slower, be a little more patient, then see how things go.
2007-05-13 16:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no. If you're a virgin, don't give it up that easily. If you're sure you don't care to wait until marriage, at least wait until you've been with someone for a while and feel like you love them. I don't know, I gave mine up to someone I wasn't dating at a very young age and I've regretted it since. Justttt take my word for it. And remember that it's something you can't get back. Years after you lose it (or maybe even sooner) you could possibly regret your decision. Take your time and wait until you feel secure with someone.
2007-05-13 16:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did ur mum teach you nothing???
The big V is an important thing. Dont just give it away to the first boy who comes along, Make him date you for a while first before making that huge decision
2007-05-13 16:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"i dont want to make the mistake of losing my virginity with an a-$-$"
Then that means lots of dates first before doing "it".
2007-05-13 16:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by pertinential 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously if you're worrying about who you wanna lose your virginity to, date him first. He's most likely in it to have sex - don't do it if you know you're gonna regret it later. Don't get too caught up in the moment.
2007-05-13 16:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
date first....u never kno what he will be....and losing ur virginity is a big thing...belive me ..u will always remember ur first...u dont want it to be to an A$$.....like u said..lol....find someone who is interested in u..not the sex
2007-05-13 16:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Deni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the sex out of the way!
Then date if u still like him!
2007-05-13 16:14:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋