Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

i am good in cooking class of mine but my father want to to take nursing please help me what course i will take in college

2007-05-13 19:11:13 · 7 answers · asked by chin 1 in Singles & Dating

OMG..... Kellie my friend found out yesterday she was pregnant she just turned 14 last week!!!! She's been dating my ex Alec & I dunno he may be that dad but he's 14 too!!! She's kinda round on the stomach! She hasn't told her parents that she took the pregnancy test & got the news!!! I need help!!!!! I dunno if she can do abortion but I can't stand the thought of killing a baby it can't help it was made!!!! What advie should I give her?????

2007-05-13 19:09:35 · 20 answers · asked by NeeNee 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 but most peole think im like 18 or 16 and i have a big butt and boobys but im a lil chubby just a little is that bad?

2007-05-13 19:09:17 · 15 answers · asked by chelsea d 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in iraq and believe it or not the idea of him jerking off to a nudie or porn rag irks me. He would never look at porn or anything like that here but I know its a fact that guys look at that crap. My husband is actually a decent guy who knows that it is, and that I strongly oppose and am disgusted with the woman who degrade themselves and continue the nasty idea that woman are just sexual objects. It would really hurt me if he looked at that smut while he is there and i know that his brother and cousin are sending him magazines and of course all the other guys over there have it too. So, my question for you is, would I be wrong to ask him what magazines he has got sent to him or he is looking at? Am I wrong as his wife not to want him to look at that nastiness while he is there when he wouldnt do it here either?

I love my man and want him to continue to honor me there as I do here.

NO, I am not Fat or ugly,maybe insecure but what woman is honestly not a bit insecure

2007-05-13 19:08:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And If you tell me, "Yes" how do I go about it doing the dating scene?

2007-05-13 19:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by ACME 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend always talks to guys, most of her friends are guys. She says she'd never do anything with any other guy and that she is just friends with them, nothing more. I tried to tell her how guys think and that to guys, there is no such thing as just friends but she doesn't believe me. I told her that all they wanna do is get her pants if they actually want to be her friend...and she said she can't help that. I told her that if thats what they want from her then she shouldn't want to be around them but she just said "But they are cool". I think its messed up that she talks to guys. I purposely avoid all girls and try to talk to them as least as possible because I figured she felt the same way. She said she loves me more than anything and that she wants to marry me but sometimes I feel like I can't trust her. She's 15 and I'm 16 (and by getting married, she doesnt mean right now, but in the future)

2007-05-13 19:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been asking me to marry him lately. We're both seniors, and I'm really considering it. I really love him, and I know he loves me back. I'm guessing that he may want to get married just so he can sleep with me, cuz I told him I wanna get married before I have sex and that I want my first time to be special. But I'm afraid if I turn him down, he'll just ditch me. He's not the kind that would cuz I know he loves me back, but I'm just scared I'll lose him..

The thing is, even though he says he loves me and I know I love him, there's this girl who just found out she's pregnant with his child. He really doesn't like her anymore, but I told him he has to stay with her. He still wants to marry me though. I'm confused!! Please give me some advice, thank you...

He slept with the girl when we were dating, at a party. He was drunk, and when he came to his senses, he confessed to me. I was super mad with at first, then I realized that he confessed because...

2007-05-13 19:00:35 · 21 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

we are working in the same company,.. he was just a collegue then, and before he got married, we were just friends. anyhow, the marriage was an arranged one, she is his cousin,.. they belong to the Muslim community, (from Jordan exactly) and it is a tradition to them. we keep on hanging together because we are working in the same environment, and eventually fall in love with each other. i know for sure that he loves me. the problem is his wife just give birth, and now he is in jordan,.. i thought i could accept it wholeheartedly but i am hurting. he already proposed marriage to me, since he can marry 4x, but my family can't accpet the fact that i'll be just the second wife, and as a catholic, they don't want me to embrace the Muslim faith. we love each other so much, but i am torn. help me please.

2007-05-13 18:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to be turned off by a possible relationship because the other has more sexual experience than you? My friend whom I like has had about 10 partners, I have had 2. Granted hers were more one-nighters and mine were 2 relationships of 1 year and 3 years. Anyways, shallow of me?

2007-05-13 18:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The above question is from a Man.

2007-05-13 18:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by lisa d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Initially I was all stupid,in love but even then,I had doubts that he isn't really into me as I am into him.He tells me the sweetest things on email or when he calls (talk is cheap anyways)but whenever he comes back to town, he would always make it a point to see me first but that's it.(one day with him is all I get)Then he wouldn't want to make time for me. He has many friends to catch up with and sometimes would rather hit the gym than meet up.Bottomline, he is full of excuses on not seeing me.I've had enough and decided to come clear with him.I don't want to continue and be taken for a fool. He is nice to me still but I'd rather remain platonic buds. But thing is,I don't like to break up (over emails / text) and wanted to set things clear by talking.He called and gave excuses again.I got fed up and told him we just talk another day but he called immediately and wants to talk but only late at night when he's free. I'm thinking of calling it quits just like that. Cold turkey. Would u?

2007-05-13 18:47:26 · 23 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2 in Singles & Dating

I am with a girl for nearly 2 months now and we connected from day one. We can kiss and hug all day long and we spend hours with each other. However, we recently had sex for the first time but we mutually did not feel anything. We actually felt as thought we lost feelings ... why is that ? We still love to kiss and hug and talk but why didn't we connect when we had sex ? Isn't there suppose to be this big attraction between us now ? I really like her but now we are both confused as what to do next. We both expected something special when we had sex.

2007-05-13 18:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by Curious Resident 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 18:45:59 · 16 answers · asked by ha. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a pretty good relationship with my husband's friend. We all hang out together, go fishing, he stays the night..etc. He is usually an okay guy. For some reason, he goes through these stages where he talks bad about me. The last thing he started was that I was in a relationship with my friend Angie. I've known him since highschool. He also knows that my hubby won't hang out with their other friend because the guy is disrespectful to me. Am I missing something? I thought we were all friends. I think maybe he gets annoyed that his best buddy has a wife and kids and can't always go and do stuff at the drop of a hat. But we've been married for 8 years! I'd like for him to just stop speaking about any aspect of our lives to other people. If he could do that, it'd be cool. I don't want my husband to not have his fishing buddy anymore because the guy is too dim witted to know when to shut up! So what do I do?

2007-05-13 18:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by MomOfThreeBoys 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have abandonment issues because my stepdad essentially neglected me for 10 years. I can tell I'm kind of f*cked up in the head. I'm college educated and ambitious but I'm an illegitimate child whose stepfather is an alcoholic and neglectful. He puts me down with subtlety occasionally and I just want to blow up in his face. The only reason I don't is because I don't want to make our relationship worse (I think I crave subconsciously for a father). I feel these issues are the only impediment that's holding me back from reaching my full potential. How can I recover from my issues without therapy or drugs?

2007-05-13 18:43:32 · 3 answers · asked by Fancelll79 2 in Family

This girl and I have been dating for like 4 months now,and she seems 2 think that she can take off whenever she wants to and do whatever she want because it's her life.Now I'm not smothering you want to go out with friends you want to get away with the girls just let me know so i don't worry,I mean am I wrong to think that when your in a relationship you should tell your partner what's going on in your lfe.

2007-05-13 18:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by C R 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for year and a half. He is unsure if he wants to have kids, will not tell me yes or no. He is 43 and I am 37. He just doesn't know if he wants them but he is sure he wants to be with me and eventually marry me. what should I do ?

2007-05-13 18:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by ala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hes my age an we have alot in common! Hes in college an will be home soon for the summer! I checked the college an there was a picture of him with hes name so i no hes no fake person! I like him alot. But scared to meet him. What should I do so I dont have butterflies?

2007-05-13 18:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by blkma87 1 in Singles & Dating

the man of my dreams (literally) is now very much in love with me... every time i wake up, i feel it is only a dream ive been living... its been almost 3 years and were even more in love than before... he wants to get married... BUT im only 21... and sometimes i see my friends going out and having fun with TONS of guys and i feel like im missing out...
what would you do? would you give up your guy to have a little bit more hot single party time or see it an an investment.. and stay with THE guy...

2007-05-13 18:37:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend just found out that his wife never got divorced and they got married in neveda, so that makes there marriage void right? What does he do know?

2007-05-13 18:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my dad are like SUPER closee, and so i really wanna make him a great fathers day gift and want to start making it soon. does anyone have any good ideas? i was going to do a scrap book with photos of me and him in it but im going to save that idea for my parents anniversary.


SO ANY IDEAS?!

2007-05-13 18:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by one2three 1 in Family

My husband and I do nothing but fight. He doesn't respect me, he just talks to me like ****. I get upset and say things I shouldn't, but he just says whatever he wants, whenever he wants and doesn't even care if he hurts my feelings. We have an almost eight month old son, and I'm a SAHM. Our son is going through a stage where he really gets upset if we put him down (please, no parenting advice) and I'm having a bit of a hard time keeping everything around the house caught up. He was yelling at me tonight that I need to get off my *** (my son was asleep on me) and "do my job" He sleeps all day because he works third shift and I never ask him for a bit of help other than to get the baby up and change him in the morning. That's it. He never talks to me, he talks to waitresses more than he does me in a weeks time, he barely kisses me, never hugs me or gets annoyed when I hug him, we never go anywhere unless he bitches about it. He just wants to do his thing. I'm so over it. I just want

2007-05-13 18:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by ... 1 in Family

some time ago i saw my aunt stepping out of her jeans, revealing one of those skimpy thongs underneath. of course i never thought of her in a sexual way (and still don't), but she was right in front of me bending over in that thong, and i couldn't help but stare.

i felt embarrassed being turned on by my (then) 46 year old aunt, only because of the attraction of this certain kind of underwear. i mean she's my mom's sister, for god's sake! i shouldn't be turned on by her. or was it just because of my teenage hormones?

anyone ever experienced something like this?

2007-05-13 18:19:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i ve liked this guy for like ever and i asked him out and he said "I like you but i don't want a girlfriend right now."

Is that an insult or should i wait for him?

2007-05-13 18:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by coolbeans1611 2 in Singles & Dating

Does the engagement ring go on the other hand or isnt worn at all on the wedding day/wedding ceremony?

2007-05-13 18:16:31 · 13 answers · asked by Brownie 2 in Weddings

Ok so I used to be shy. But now I've come out of my shell and am talkative, friendly, etc... Not to sound arrogant but I'm a good looking guy, definitely above average. But I have trouble with girls.

I really don't know why that is. I don't go up and ask if they want to hang out sometime, maybe I'm not sending clear signals when in fact I am interested?? Girls smile and act nice to me, but I don't know if they're interested so I can't really make a move because I don't want to seem like a weirdo. What am I supposed to do? Gosh I feel so helpless.

2007-05-13 18:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by RSDX 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I'm 19. I'm a straight guy, and still no girlfriend. The reasons are: I don't ask girls out enough, and when I do (rarely) it doesn't work. The few girls who were into me were complete turn-offs for me for some reason. I also don't have that many friends and do not go to social events very often.

I thought about perhaps creating an online profile on a website. Why? You can be a little bit more picky and also have a higher chance of finding someone nice (searching based on interests, what they write about themselves, etc...).

I think that overall I'm okay, I'm just lacking experience. And I would like to start dating.

What's the general opinion about these matching websites? And I think that being a university student with no car and little money is also a problem :\

2007-05-13 18:14:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in about half n hour i will see him and say goodbye, i love him to peices but i keep getting hurt.. So basically i'm ending it. What are some things i could say?? i'm abit lost at the moment.. help!

2007-05-13 18:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at a party, got her number, I called her and we set up a tentive plan to meet up with friends later (some of mine, some of hers). However, when I called to confim the plans she never called back. I figured I would never hear from her agian...However, today she sent me a (text a week and a half later) asking me if I still wanted to go out. She said she had been sick and busy at work. What should my next move be????Ladies, help me out!

2007-05-13 18:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by coachpeddie 2 in Singles & Dating

O.k. heres the thing, I am currently being offered a full-time position at a job I don't like, I won't go into very many details but I'm not happy and my attitude from it affects my relationship with my boyfriend, he thinks it's a great opportunity and that I should take it but I'm not sure, so I guess my question is...
Would you stay at a job you don't like to make more money even though your not happy with it???

2007-05-13 18:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating