This girl and I have been dating for like 4 months now,and she seems 2 think that she can take off whenever she wants to and do whatever she want because it's her life.Now I'm not smothering you want to go out with friends you want to get away with the girls just let me know so i don't worry,I mean am I wrong to think that when your in a relationship you should tell your partner what's going on in your lfe.
2007-05-13 18:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by C R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I believe so. Though it's your life, hey dude, you got to snap out of it! You went into a relationship, and the moment that you say yes, you got to know the rules and the expectations. Just talk to her and say what you feel about what she is doing. Maybe that will help... So that she will realize that she is behaving so naively.
2007-05-13 18:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Central Park 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would bet that if it were you doing your thing she would see things in a diff light. you should try it yourself? who knows you just might find a girl that feels the same about you as you do her. cuz sounds like this girl likes having her cake and ice cream and eating it also. hey if i were you i would make sure that she doesn't give you some S.T.D. remember there are some things that a girl can give to you that you wouldn't have any clue. not all S.T.D.s have tell tale signs for the guys? and in most cases if you don't have an open relationship> meaning the swinging type< why should you be missing out on maybe finding that special girl?
2007-05-13 18:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by wetttnwyld1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really something that two people have to work out between themselves.
My own personal feelings on this issue:
If it affects my other- then I'll let him know ahead of time so we can coordinate.
If we don't have plans and he's not joining: then I usually don't bother telling him unless it comes up.
Ultimately, it is MY life and I will make all decisions that affect myself. However, you can avoid this entire issue by choosing to be in mutually trusting and respectful relationships. (..uh...huh?)
2007-05-13 18:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's her Life,, but, since she is in a relationship with you, then she should out of respect let you know where she's going. Like you said, so you won't be worried.
If she won't at leave give you this kind of consideration, I'd say, cut your losses and let her go.
You deserve better!
2007-05-13 18:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100%, as long as that applies to you as well
2007-05-13 18:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ ♥ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes...last i checked i wasnt property
2007-05-13 18:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by l8r2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋