I met this girl at a party, got her number, I called her and we set up a tentive plan to meet up with friends later (some of mine, some of hers). However, when I called to confim the plans she never called back. I figured I would never hear from her agian...However, today she sent me a (text a week and a half later) asking me if I still wanted to go out. She said she had been sick and busy at work. What should my next move be????Ladies, help me out!
2007-05-13 18:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by coachpeddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just needed time to think things over to weather or not
to go out with you,now that she was sure she wanted to go
out with you, she called.When someone ask us out we ask our girl friends what they think about it.Maybe she got mix
massages .
2007-05-13 19:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My instinct as a girl is if a girl likes a guy she will find a way to be with him, and she won't blow him off. It sounds like she just isn't that into you, if she was, she wouldn't have ignored you for a week. Come on, how long does it take to text "im sick" like 3 seconds. If you want, say yes you still want to hang out, but leave the planning up to her and you will see how interested she is or not.
2007-05-14 01:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give her 'another chance' but make this a 'date' for just the two of you ... take a walk, get some coffee or tea, and TALK.
2007-05-14 01:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes super cool person that you think you can trust,stay with her but if she doesnt want have a very good relationship with you she probably already cheated on you.(im a guy by the way)
2007-05-14 01:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance. It was not cool for her to not call back. But one chance can't hurt.
2007-05-14 01:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by gogogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her another chance. What if her explanation was true? If she does this again, then you should consider not calling or seeing her.
2007-05-14 01:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady. However...........
Either choose to believe her, and make plans, or don't, (this would involve ignoring her ).
No relationship can withstand long term lack of trust, why bother to start one without it??
Luck
2007-05-14 01:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do it!!!! Call her back. She had a legitimate excuse. don't call off the date, you'd make a mistake.
2007-05-14 01:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
week and a half, sounds pretty flakey... honestly I'd move on... unless there was a true connection and she was truely sincere
2007-05-14 01:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not interested. She just wants to go out so you'll spend some money.
2007-05-14 01:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus & Kristle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋