OMG..... Kellie my friend found out yesterday she was pregnant she just turned 14 last week!!!! She's been dating my ex Alec & I dunno he may be that dad but he's 14 too!!! She's kinda round on the stomach! She hasn't told her parents that she took the pregnancy test & got the news!!! I need help!!!!! I dunno if she can do abortion but I can't stand the thought of killing a baby it can't help it was made!!!! What advie should I give her?????
2007-05-13 19:09:35 · 20 answers · asked by NeeNee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She didn't want sex she was raped!
She dumped the guy!
2007-05-13 19:22:32 · update #1
She wants this baby so much!!! She already has clothes for it from her alowence!
2007-05-13 19:24:08 · update #2
She is 1 month pregnant so she got pregnant at 13 1/2!
2007-05-13 19:25:43 · update #3
Shes no going to abort she can't do it I can't stand it either!
2007-05-13 19:26:40 · update #4
She really needs to talk to her parents.... theres nothing that she can do without them (the parents)... because she's a minor.... but theres a problem that can arise from this.... regardless if she consented to having sex with him or not... HER PARENTS can still file RAPE charges on him.... you need to talk to her, but all-in-all shes going to have to talk to her parents, or the school about it....
My prayers to her, and good luck.
2007-05-13 19:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents right away. They will know what to do. If she's afraid that they'll lash out at her, offer to be with her when she tells them. That's her only choice. Even if she wants to have an abortion, she should talk to her parents. In most states a minor can get an abortion without talking to her parents, but she should ask for their help anyway. She's way too young to be handling this on her own.
And she should stop having sex for the next 6 years!
2007-05-13 19:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg tell your friend kelly to have an abortion right now. 14 years is way too young.. Her parents may need to know as she is not even over 18 yet. I know abortion may not be the best option for her, but its the best option for a 14yr old who is pregnant! goodluck
2007-05-13 19:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Peter H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on her for determining to preserve that child!! It is a existence and if she isn't equipped for a child there's extra choices than simply aborting the little existence. She could have her child followed. If she seemed into all of her choices with regard to watching after her child and is going to her mum and dad with that infomation they're going to see she is attempting to do the correct factor and rather needs this little existence and she or he is not only going into it without doing any of the pondering. Yes it's VERY younger to have a child and she's going to want alot of aid however there's extra to existence than persons consider, it's not simply tuition and a flash watching profession, there's alot extra!! And alot extra choices. Do a few pondering, concidar adoption and sure whilst on the abortion sanatorium she demands to inform them that she does no longer wish this IF her mum and dad make her, however she wont realize that till she tells them. All the great! Its going to be a rough street however a do-capable one. Also she demands to precise to her mum and dad that in the event that they made her do this how that could make her suppose, and recognize to them that sure she made a mistake and having a child this younger will probably be rough, and she or he mostly will have to have idea alot extra approximately her offerings however she did not and is attempting to do the great she will with the quandary she is in, they're going to confidently keep a bit appreciate for that. Hope it is going good enough, prayers are along with her! :) Also they do have a correct to grasp, they're going to ultimatly be the only's paying and serving to in an overly massive manner watching after this little child for relatively a while. I consider they deserve the appreciate :)
2016-09-05 19:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if abortion is not the answer consider adoption shes too young unless she has strong family to help, but if not give the baby a fair chance at life or she could even go to a home for pregnant teens they help teach teens how to be a mother if family doesnt want to or cant help u can find places like that on the comp
2007-05-13 19:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what! NEVER NEVER consider abortion.abortion is a murder,u mentioned her stomach is kinda round?she must be at leaast 2month pregnant.tell her that the baby's heart is beating after 20 days.anyway...she can give away for adoption,but tell her to keep in mind that abortion is smth. that will stay with her 4ever +i have 2friends that they did abortion on their first pregnancy and now they can't have kids anymore!her parents should help her,,
congrats!
and good luck!
2007-05-13 19:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by supercat1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't give her any advise, but you can promise to be there for her and to stand by her when she tells her parents. She is not going to be able to get an abortion legally at her age but she should consider giving the child up for adoption.
2007-05-13 19:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to talk to an adult she trusts. One who can give her the best advise possible. One who will listen to her and not judge her. We all make mistakes. 14yrs old is too young to try and meet the demands of having a child. While I do not necessarily support the idea of abortion, I also do not attempt to tell a person what they should do with their body. This is going to be an EXTREMELY emotional decision for her. Be there to give her support, NO MATTER WHAT HER DECISION.
2007-05-13 19:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by swee_pea630 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she shouldn't have been such a whore. She should've considered the consequences and now she's gotta bite the bullet. Consider adoption. Either way, she'll always have to live with the fact that she's a pathetic stain on humanity.
P.S.
I don't believe you when you say she was raped. I think you're just trying to justify the fact. 90% of women would not keep a "rape baby".
2007-05-13 19:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Steve M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont abort, no one life should be taken in this act of recklessness. If she does not want the baby she should give it up for adoption, or she should grow up and assume the responsibilties of an adult even if she is young
2007-05-13 19:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋