in about half n hour i will see him and say goodbye, i love him to peices but i keep getting hurt.. So basically i'm ending it. What are some things i could say?? i'm abit lost at the moment.. help!
2007-05-13 18:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him
you need space to think about this
you are not happy
you need time to figure out what is not making you happy
tell him to go to hell
tell him that he is not full filling his end of the began
2007-05-13 18:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure this is what you want to do, if the problem is fixable then try to work with it. If its not then tell him how you feel and be firm about your decision tell him the reason your breaking up with him but don't start a fight keep it breif. And if he hurt you really bad don't even try to be friends history repeats it self.
2007-05-14 01:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him don't let the door hit his *** on the way out!
Joking aside, tell him its just not working out and that you think its better for you two to be split, just be honest about why your wanting to breakup, if he's hurting you, it'll make him think twice about repeating the same actions to another woman.
2007-05-14 01:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just eat a big burrito a few hours before you meet him. Then make sure to stink up the place real good.
2007-05-14 01:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by caucasian_monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie, don't make excuses, don't say anything he can argue with.
tell him that you want to be happy and you are not happy being with him any more, and you've decided you need to detach yourself from him.
don't answer the question "why?"
be brief, no details
be firm
don't argue
don't call names
don't bring up past behaviors
leave no opening for him to convince you otherwise
2007-05-14 01:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by perudonations 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what a girl once told me when she was moving away and it was the last time I'd see her(possibly ever)
"do it quick like a band aid"
and also... after its done... thats the end of it...
2007-05-14 01:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he shows up, don't answer the door.
When he calls you from home, don't answer the phone.
When he knocks at your door tomorrow, be gone.
Advoid him. At ever turn.
If you don't, you will allow him to hurt you a BUNCH of more times.
.....You know that.
Don't let him.
Or DO. You seem like that type of girl.
2007-05-14 01:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're ending it because you want to start looking out for your own best interests, especially since you feel that he hasn't been looking out for them.
Good for you, chica!
2007-05-14 01:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong about your decision. Just tell him straight him about how you feel and why you are going to break up with him.
2007-05-14 01:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say how you feel and why. Only you really know that. Be honest with him and most of all be honest with yourself.
-good luck.
2007-05-14 01:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by kperry1911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋