is it true guys rather you be a little chubby or thick then super skinny?

Question

im 13 but most peole think im like 18 or 16 and i have a big butt and boobys but im a lil chubby just a little is that bad?

Answer 1

Chelsea, you are 13 you are allowed to be a bit chubby or thick. Dont worry it will all fall into place as you get older, just remember to eat right and always get some exercise, play sports etc so that you keep your muscle tone.

And as to guys liking girls, everyone has different tastes. Some like skinny girls some like normal body styles and others like thicker styles, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However there is some preferences related to ethnic groups of people in the country, it seems latino's go for women with larger hips, blacks for larger buts and thighs and whites for bigger boobs...and long legs....at your age I would not worry too much about this stuff.

Answer 2

I'm not a guy so I can't really answer lol. But as a girl I've often wondered the same thing. From what I can tell, based on what I've observed in life, is that each guy has different tastes. My ex had a friend who only liked super skinny girls, but when my ex and I dated, I weighed 20 lbs more than I do now, and he did not seem to mind at all. I think the more important thing is that you look nice and presentable and that you and the guy share common interests. That seems to be the general consensus if you want a decent guy (not some shallow jerk). As a side note, I lost the twenty lbs because I had gotten sick. I've had a stomach problem for three years, and personally, I think I look better with a little more meat on me. Don't worry--you look very healthy and happy in your pic (and pretty lol). As long as you're active and you eat healthy, I don't see why you should change anything.

Answer 3

I am a vegetarian since 1973 till now and getting ready to go on an all raw foods diet. BUT I like women with plenty meat on them bones! I have NO interest in skinny, thin or model-sized women. I also suffer from the steatopygia addiction and am polygamy-centered.

Now, are you really 13 or an undercover pedophiles seeking cyber cop?

Answer 4

Everyone has different tastes as to the type of person they are in to.

I was also really "developed" when I was your age. It's not bad to be curvaceous but always remember to have self-respect and never accept disrespectful behavior toward you and your body from any guy. There are too many guys in the world to choose from that there's no reason you should ever put up with someone trying to make you feel bad about yourself (if anyone is telling you you're too fat) or someone who can't keep his hands to himself because he thinks big breasts means fair game to anyone who wants to touch them.

If you are worried about being overweight you should have a physical and let your doctor determine that, but don't let anyone other than a physician tell you.

Answer 5

I always heard an old saying, that nothing likes bones but a dog, so I guess so, i know boy likes girls with a lot of boos and big butts and bug legs, so you have all that at 13, you better watch out, you will have the boys standing in line.

Answer 6

It depends. Not all guys are the same. I for one prefer a little chubby over very skinny. My first (and ,sadly, only) girlfriend was a little big to prove a point, that the social trend so many people follow shouldn't control your life.

Answer 7

At your age, it's not a problem because it's considered 'baby fat'. Guys like women with 'female' bodies. The problems arise when people start finding ways of explaining away being 25+ pounds overweight for their height and age and then become bitter and angry because it's uncomfortable for everybody concerned, themselves included. Just stay in shape and you won't have to worry about it!

Answer 8

Yeah, some of us guys like our ladies to look well fed, not starved half-to-death.

I very much prefer a rubenesque figure to one of the bony supermodels.

But Mike gave you good advise. Don't worry about your physique right now. Just eat sensibly, and get plenty of exercise and don't worry if you are not skin and bones. You will be healthy, and there will be plenty of guys who think you look great.

Doc

Answer 9

It depends on the guy. Some are crazy about the description you gave but others like myself. Love a slim, small butt and normal boobs size.

Answer 10

Sometimes it is true..yes. That some guys like there woman a little bigger then super skinny...Some chicks like that i just do not like...i'll be friends but no relationship with them for me..