Is it wrong to be turned off by a possible relationship because the other has more sexual experience than you? My friend whom I like has had about 10 partners, I have had 2. Granted hers were more one-nighters and mine were 2 relationships of 1 year and 3 years. Anyways, shallow of me?
2007-05-13 18:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might have more sexual experience than her b/c you were in a some/what long relationship, more intimacy, more sex going on. If her experiences were just 10 times, I bet yours were more in those 4 years. I wouldn't look down on her, maybe she just hasn't found the guy for her, is it you?
2007-05-13 19:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by hpage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a relationship (a serious one that is) should be based on trust. Having the knowledge that your partner sleeps around will always be at the back of your mind. Can you trust your partner when he/she is away from you or seem to be a wee bit more friendly to another person? If this bothers you, then do not get serious. You're not shallow. We are all unique in our own way, shaped by nature and nurture.....
2007-05-14 02:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by 40 something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years ago, I'd not have had a problem at all. Hey is was the '70's and sex was free and easy.
Now days, with so many STD's that penicillin won't cure...... things are somewhat different.
I can't throw rocks at you for being turned off by her past sexual history. But neither will I condemn the lady on the information you've given.
All I can say is follow you heart amigo. And don't throw away a possible good deal because of past indiscretions.
2007-05-14 02:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def not, everybody is differnt... Some ppl wouldnt have a problem with that, but im like you. Id rather have the relationship
2007-05-14 01:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rambo R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw watch the movie chasing amy you'll see
2007-05-14 01:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by big t daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you are insecure about it than u should go into the relationship, if not make sure both of u take an STD test
2007-05-14 02:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw she shouldnt have been around that easily i ould feel like it wasnt hard 2 get her n that make me feel lame but if u wanna b #11 hit that up for a night n b out!
2007-05-14 01:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Go Getta 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are not shallow, but you'll have to get over it.
2007-05-14 01:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by avikseun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different ideas when it comes to sex. You should never do something that you are uncomfortable with.
2007-05-14 01:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by louie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not shallow, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then its valid. shes been with too many people in my opinion.
2007-05-14 01:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by None 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋