Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

This happened years ago but i'm bringing this up cuz this has always bothered me. YEARS ago, me and this girl were really good friends. I dated this guy all throughout my senior year and the following year during our first year in college. I got pregnant with his child and he didnt want this baby - neither did my parents. they all made me have an abortion. it was horrible and was a basket case for a long time... anyhow obviously we broke up but I still loved this guy for a very long time until i met my husband. 3 years later i ended up getting married to soon find out that this girl that I thought was my best friend told me she was dating my ex! I acted like I didnt care in front of her but when I was driving home I was devastated and felt almost betrayed! I mean i know i shouldnt have been mad because of me being married but still. years have passed and have still resented her for that. but i havent told her. its an old subject but have often wondered if its normal to be upset.

2007-05-13 19:58:13 · 14 answers · asked by Girl Next Door 2 in Friends

while it happened not long ago,during lesson time,when my classmates saw me, he was like "ekkkkkkk" it sound like i am ugly....and when his friend sit with me during lesson time,he keep laughing at his friend for siting with me.....i wonder am i really tat ugly ???

2007-05-13 19:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he will never, never, tell you he misses you, or that he likes you ~~~ someone said this...
Any truth to it.....

2007-05-13 19:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, story:
I've known this guy since when i was 14 and he was 19(cause Our family are good friends), but he moved out of Hawaii and i hadn't seen him in 10 years. So we had an early summer bbq and he was there. Maybe cause i grew boobs and am now 24, that we just hit it off. It was wierd, but nice and I like him and he likes me. Well, he was only visiting and went back to S. Carolina. I just found out I'm pregnant and it's his (haven't had sex in 6 moths before).

Here's the problem: I found out he's had 3 miscarriages and 1 abortion with other girls throughout the 10 years. He must have supersperm or something. He doesn't want kids right now, and neither do I, but now I know I with child, and I wanna keep it.

HOW DO I TELL HIM? I have a feeling the reaction is gonna destroy that chemistry we have.

(Sorry so long)

2007-05-13 19:50:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she stoped responding mails, coz i except ed her as a friend and not a girl friend.

2007-05-13 19:49:07 · 15 answers · asked by Shana 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 5 and a half yrs and he still hasnt popped the q. can you help?

2007-05-13 19:47:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys think your "doing to much" when you call them or text them alot. Do you like attention or a little space?lemme know = ]..
do you think if a girl acts flirty all the time (just with u) that she's being to flirty?
do you like when she callz u names like "baby"or"sexxi"or "handsome" u know the usual stuff..
do you like em to be all touchy..
and last but SURELY not least..where do ya like to be kissed&touched the most
lemme in..i needa know..!!!!

2007-05-13 19:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Singles & Dating

In awkward position rt now. I'm married & had been involved with this married woman for 3 mos. We had a great time together. We were intimate, we were friends. I wasn't talking to her as much as in the beginning. I still talked to her every day or so but she felt we were growing apart. I made mistake of posting on a board a fantasy I had. She did a search for me & found it. Turned her off. She said it changed everything. It was awkward 4 me 2 have 2 explain 2 her. Now she doesn't want to have anything to do w/ me despite the fact that she said she would remain friends with me. I am hurt & bitter. I actually fell for this one. I like her & not just because of the sex. I know so many things about her & I know she wants divorced from her husband. She wants it on her terms. I'm contemplating telling him everything. I run the risk of her finding my wife & telling on me or coming to my job & making a scene. This would ruin her. Should I tell her husband or let this one go?

2007-05-13 19:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Big Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

ok sooo this is going to sound wierd but have you ever heard of that quote '16 and never been kisses'? That would be me!
I have never been kissed before and all my friends have..the school disco is coming up and all my friends think i should 'hook up' with one of the guys..they don't know that i have never kissed a guy before and I dont want them to know eiether! Its really embarassing..What do I do? How do you kiss someone? ..oh im so embarassed even asking this question..

2007-05-13 19:43:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 12 and going on 13 in june. so far she has 3 A's, 3B's and a D in one class. i noticed she seems to not listen when told by her father that she needs to come home because its dinner time but she wants to stay out later. I find that she says littlelies to get her way, i think she thinks that i dont know she is being sneaky like that but i know. she is also mean to her younger sisters. im not that sure how to handle the situation. i mean i got so upset and yelled at her. I told her that the only way she was able to even think aout going to this concert is that if she brought home her last report card from school and it showed all A's and she had to be nice to her sisters adn learn to say sorry and stop giving an attitude.

2007-05-13 19:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today an old friend of mine's birthday was today, Like I've knowdn this girl for almost 12 years, but we lost contact and hadn't spoke to each other in almost five years, until recently we connected back throught myspace, so anywhoo, the first time we hooked up I notice that she made jokes about me alot, and I know that we were ol time buddies and everything, but she was asking me personal questions likw what do i do when I'm having sex? and what type of postions do I do/? But today, me and her sister(who are closer) took her out to dinner, i ended up treating her to dinner, for her birthday, but I notice that she kept laughing at me , and telling guys at the reastraunt that i was too shy, and she asked me what do i do at home all day ? Probably just eat all day? So i guess hse was trying to say I was fat which I'm not, and then when her boyfriend called she told him that she can laugh at me if she wants too, and she will? and I just didn't understand why would she act like this tow

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towards me,. and I notice that when i had to take her home she didn;t say anything to me during the whole drive which I thought was weird? I just don't know people act like this towards me..

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And what got me is that when the tab came up her sister, which is the one a little closer too, actually made abig deal about being short, when i was paying for HER sister to eat, and I offered her three dollars for gas, and she took it, even after all the times that we 've went out and I've nver asked her for gas, so I just don't know about these two, should I leave them both behind or keep them around?

2007-05-13 19:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very unhappily married and I had a 5-1/2yr affair with a married man. We were very good friends and decided that this relationship would work for us as we are committed to raising our families and both of us did not want to divorce our respective spouses. Then I found out he was cheating with at least one other woman. His wife told me. I confonted the new girlfriend and found out so many lies he told me. I even found out he had sex with her and then to me and then to his wife all in one day. Instead of facing me and apologizing, he just avoided me. He lied his way out of the trouble he was in with his wife (she wants so desperately to believe he is faithful..) and is back to his normal life with absolutely no repurcussions. I, on the other hand, have been crushed and am having a hard time moving on. I want him to take responsibility for what he has done and not get off scott free. How do I get past these feelings of revenge?

2007-05-13 19:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by kovacgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

150 million women in the U.S., and not one of them will have anything to do with me. I have no one to confide in, no one to laugh and be merry with; just a dead end temp job which I'll probably lose because of jury duty. Don't give me that religion BS, that schit just makes me sucidal. I need a decent woman to go out with--to make my life a litte more worthwhile, perhaps?

2007-05-13 19:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is graduating high school on his 19th bday, which is this Thursday. That is great, but his future may not be so great...My brother wants to go into the Marines, and go into infinitry, which basically makes him a target. It just really upsets me, because I don't want to bury a brother at the age of 19. My family isn't so pleased about it either, I want him to come to college with me, and have fun, and ENJOY life...

2007-05-13 19:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by millerdealer 2 in Family

i m getting married next yr my fi and i have 4 groomsmen & 4 bridesmades , i do not know what is a perfect gift for them to say thank u.
can u help?

2007-05-13 19:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by tamlee01 2 in Weddings

I have been seeing a guy for just over 1 month now...he asked me to marry him the other day. which i only met him 1 month ago. we've only had sex two times. He is a nice guy but, i havent even no where near fallin in love with him. In a way it seems a little weird to me he'd even think i'd be ready.he lives 1 hour from me and we've only spent 2 weekends together. Is this normal? should it be a red flag to me? please tell me what u think.

2007-05-13 19:32:28 · 23 answers · asked by littlebit 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex wrote letter behind my back to my boss about "our sitiuation" she made it look like I don't want to work in the new place and it's unfair that they won't pay for kids tickets (I had to move because of my job) I don't know what to do I never said nothing like that and even better we was just talking with her about kids airfare at that we will buy tickets (it was decided in the cour that she has to pay half for it)
my boss is looking at me strange I don't know what to do? how can I make her stop?

2007-05-13 19:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok gang I am leaving the US in a couple of weeks and will probably be headed back to Iraq for 6/7 months with the UK Army.I have been with my girl for nearly 3 months and have never had things so good in a relationship.We were talking last night and she said "I really like you but am holding back because of my past, I know it's cheesy but it's not you it's me". Is she playing for time so she can finish things when I get back to the UK or is she scared she will get hurt again and just needing a bit more time to come to terms with her feelings ? Any ideas on what my next move should be will be appreciated.

2007-05-13 19:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shy Brit guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have made women *** ova 15 times til they couldnt no more what do that mean

2007-05-13 19:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend want to marry with a guy but he is already married since 2 years he has no child but recently his is pregnent he want to take a divorce from his wife and get mary with my friend tell how can they both married and how can he take divorce from his wife

2007-05-13 19:30:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the short story. Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for a year and a half. I do not want to get back with him whatsoever! But we were friends before we got together. Now me and his cousin are best friends and they are very close. This summer me and my friend will be going to the lake, alot. Well, my ex will be going as well. He has a new girlfriend and she will probably be with him most of the time. If it were up to me I would do everything I could not to be around him. I do not want to pass up any chances to have fun, just to avoid being around my ex. My friends have already talked to him about being around me this summer. He says everything is cool, and it will be fine. I think I will be fine if I just have to be around him. But if I have to be around his new girlfriend, I do not know how comfortable I will be with the situation. I know I can deal with it, but I just need some advice about the issue!

2007-05-13 19:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 23 1 in Singles & Dating

Why has my husband started hating me ?
I`m so hurt.
Why are guys so cruel. I gave birth to his two kids. he should be tolerant, shouldn`t he.
What makes a guy hate his wife ?

2007-05-13 19:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Who? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15....

2007-05-13 19:23:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what dou u think about this match.. ?

2007-05-13 19:21:59 · 19 answers · asked by rochi_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't no what to get my husband for his birthday. i want to get him jewellery but what?

are id braclettes ok?

2007-05-13 19:19:43 · 13 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 19:19:37 · 49 answers · asked by icy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife was never very keen on sex. Early in our marriage, I believe she saw it only as a means for having the kids she wanted. After that, I always got the feeling that she saw it as her duty and nothing more. Nowadays, it seems she doesn't see it at all. We haven't tried couseling, but I doubt it'd work since you can't revive something that was never there in the first place. I am thinking of going outside my marriage in order to fulfill my needs. What do you think? Should this be an option for me?

2007-05-13 19:17:25 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15. Saturday, some friends and I went to a Killers concert in Kansas City. My friends called this cab driver they prefer because he has these music video screens in his taxi. The driver is an old fat man with this long grey beard.

Later he drove us back home. On the way, my friend called her father to see if she could stay the night at my house. Her father said no she couldn't. After hanging up she called him an *** Hole. The cab driver suddenly said "Hey, that's no way to speak of your father in my taxi cab." My friend actually apologized to him for calling her father an *** hole, which he was for not letting.

After we got home, I asked her why she didn't tell the cab driver to mind his own business? She said because even though he's strict about such things as bad language in his cab, he could always be depended on, treats them like his own children, and even give good advice when asked. They call him Papa Bear, but I think he's rude and fat. I would never use him.

2007-05-13 19:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We were together for 2 1/2 years. There were a couple trust issues, but I thought we had gotten past that. I gave him everything in the world, and I love him very much. He's the only person I want to ever be with. We were happy, then bam, he said we should just be friends. How can I go about accepting this. This is the most difficult thing I have been faced with in my life. I need some advice.

2007-05-13 19:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when a guy keeps callin you and texting you all day and all night do you like the attention?

if you didn't like him doing so would you tell him?

and if you did like him doing so would you ignore him from time to time to keep the calls coming??

2007-05-13 19:13:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating