Why do i feel like i will never get over my mother when she passes away?

Question

im 15....

no my mother has not passed away.

Answer 1

I would have to say that losing your mother will be the hardest thing to get over but as time goes by your pain will go away but her memories will be positive and not saddening

Answer 2

Part of the reason is that you're 15. I felt exactly the same way until I was about 20. Then one day my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and I realized that I had to come to terms with the fact that I would lose her someday. And now that I have lost her, I miss her every day.
In some ways, you never do get over losing your mother. There will always be things you wish you could share with her and times when you just want your mom! (Today was one of those days for me).
The only thing I can tell you is that you can't dwell on it. Remind yourself every day how lucky you are to have her now. Tell her every day how much you love her. Encourage her to take care of herself so you'll have her as long as possible. And you can help take care of her by being the best daughter you can. Make her proud of you. I'm sure she already is; just go that extra step every chance you get.
Now go give her a big hug for me and tell her you love her.

Answer 3

Try and get out there as much as possible and try and cheer youself up. Your mother wants to be proud of you so make her proud. Go for your goals and never stop until you reach them. She believes in you even if she's watching from heaven.
I'm so sorry to hear about the death but with a little encouragement, friends and support you'll get through. There is away to get through it. Just stay strong and keep fighting through life. Luck will come your way soon. It always does. After every low tides there's a high tide like luck, the sea maybe choppy or calm like life but things do change. The world is ever-changing and unfair for everyone making it fair.

Answer 4

Because you wont get over her passing away. People say that it will get easier or you will get over the pain. These are usually the people who have not yet experienced the loss of a parent yet. Three deaths you never get over are your parents, your child and your spouse. The best thing you can do is cherish your mom while you have her, store up lots of memories with her and take alot of pictures. It helps to be able to think of memories and look at pictures while remembering what you were doing when they were taken. You will go on living with your moms memory to help you through. I have not gotten over my loss and holidays are hard but I pull out the pictures and spend a little while with them and my kids talking about our favorite memory and it helps.

Answer 5

Healing after a loss always seems so impossible but it can and eventually does happen. I do not know why you are thinking about when your mom will pass away, perhaps you are thinking about when you get older or if she is sick, the near future. Either way, discuss these feelings with her and share as much love with her as you can now. That way you won't ever feel like you wasted your time together and she will know how much you care about her!

Answer 6

have she passed away yet? or do you mean when that time comes? It's hard for everyone when a loved one passes away, some people just can't let go and other people will slowly, but eventually go on with their lives, but that doesn't mean we'll ever forget that person.

You just have to think about the person who passed away, would they want you to be sad for the rest of your life? If I died I wouldn't want the people who cared about me to be depressed all the time, of course there's going to be a few days or a week of depression but you just have to move on, I'm sure that's what they would want.

Answer 7

You shouldn't never try to get over the lost of your mother. It will come a time when you don't morn anymore, but you will always remember your mom. She is in your heart and no one can't take that away. Your mom don't want you to forget about her, but for you to continue to live your life.

The things she taught you is very important. Just live the life away from drugs, and crime, and she will be very proud of you. When you get married and become a mom, be the best mom you can be like your mom.

I am sorry for your lost! I will keep you in my prayer.

God Bless

Answer 8

has she passed away??

well ur mother becomes ur friend as u mature, she is no longer just ur protector, she becomes more.the women that has nurtured u and given u that quality in life the best way she knows how.

U right that u will never get over ur mother because her memory will live in u always, but your life will go on, because that is what mama would want, for u to be happy and live life just like she had. (",)

Answer 9

I'm really feeling like that too! (I'm really paniced that something will happen now that she is older and so many of my friends have lost their parents....)
I want to spend more time with her and try and listen more to her stories and just be around her. I was just thinking today I don't want to have guilt on top of grief so I am trying to eliminate and even apologize for stuff I said when I was little so I hope I am not going to feel guilty. Lots of good comment above me too! I hope you and your mother stay close and don't distance yourself in fear. Embrace her and let her know how much you love her. And let her know that everything she did to raise you, you remember!

Answer 10

We will all pass away at some time--the loss is hard for any survivors. that is part of the grief process---coming to grips with the loss. yes it is a long term thing, no you will never forget her...but it is a fact of life that you need to understand. Appreciate her now and remember the memories and lessons she has taught you. That is the love she has for you now.