Why has my husband started hating me ?
I`m so hurt.
Why are guys so cruel. I gave birth to his two kids. he should be tolerant, shouldn`t he.
What makes a guy hate his wife ?
2007-05-13 19:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Who? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He probably feels trapped. Give him some space.
He doesn't hate you, I bet he loves you and your kids to death.
2007-05-13 19:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by espms290 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I am so sorry for you. I really doubt that it is hate, but will leave that to you to decide. If he is through with the marriage, then end it yourself, take what is rightfully yours and start over. You are capable of raising 2 kids alone, and he does have to provide for them, so you will be ok, and there are men out there who are looking for the ready made family.
Now to the question: what makes them hate, or lose love? It is usually that the wife and husband stop thinking ...and communicating... That is the key to all good relationships. If you can talk about what you are upset about, then it can be dealt with..if not...hate or just plain disdain ensues.
2007-05-14 02:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by R. W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he hates you but guys dont think when they married someone there will be lots of changes throw the whole marriage . Most guys thinks they should come first not the kids . I think you should have a long talk with him. The first question to ask is : why you hate me ? do you love are children ? what is wrong in are marriage and how can we work it out . listen to him and try to work with him . Good luck
2007-05-14 02:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecka V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well animal instincts. unfortunately we are all more like animals than we think. Imagine the grizzly bear during mating season annually. Male bear fights with other male bears to mate with female bears.. The bears animal instincts tells the male bear to spread it's genetics to as many female bears as possible, to ensure his genetics are passed on to another generation b4 he dies. anyhow it is very unlikely a male bear would run into the same female bear in their life time after mating. Your husband is just feeling the frustration of being the wild bear but tied down to responsibility and wants to be like the grizzly in the wild, which pokes and run.
2007-05-14 02:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all hubby's are bad i would say..actually its a one-to-one correspondence..im not saying u did something wrong or said something bad ..but most of the times guys are tired and do lose their temper and that anger often results in hatred..so u need to talk to ur hubby and let him know how u feel about his behaviour towards u ..ask him if theres something that u should do in order to make him feel better and loved and tell him if u did something wrong to him unknowingly then u r sorry....he will change his mood and start loving u again im sure of that..
2007-05-14 02:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow up and grow apart it isnt anything you did or didnt do people just change!!! Say okay well see ya in court for child support and start focusing on ya babies! GOD will send ya MR RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! from been there done that after 4 kids not just too good luck honey i'll say a prayer for ya and im not bs'in GOD will send him ya way
2007-05-14 02:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by morelandapril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to your last question, what makes the wife hate her husband, we have been married for over ten years, and all she does is bit**ch at me and you ask why do they hate us, maybe this is one question that I can not answer, you give all that you can be expected to give, and you still end up on the shi*t list.
2007-05-14 03:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gumbo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u ladies all ways pull the (giving birth card)
just too make us fell guilty
the reason why men are so cruel is because
girls have so much power against men
and
that puts down us when we cant get the respect that
we deserve
well hope that helps u with your issue
2007-05-14 02:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
More or less he is not happy with himself so he takes it out on you. Or there is an other women and he does have the heart to leave you because of the kids so he is making your life h_ll so that you leave him.
2007-05-14 02:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do, but there could be a number of reasons a guy would. Sometimes it's selfish reasons, other times it's defensive. Sometimes it really is her fault, but if that was the case with you, I don't think you'd be asking "why?".
2007-05-14 02:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋