2007-05-13 19:19:37 · 49 answers · asked by icy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely NOT. That is a worst thing to do. Put yourself in his wife's shoes and see how you would feel. Do you want such a thing happen to you? For sure you don't. Then you shouldn't do it someone else.
2007-05-13 19:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. First, you will have to be careful where the two of you go because you might be seen by his wife's friends, or "their" friends, or his work colleagues. Then you have to be satisfied with him leaving early to make "bed check" at his home. Also, probably no romantic weekends because he can't get away. Also, expect some last-minute cancellations because his wife may have some social affairs scheduled that he either forgot about or didn't even know about. However, the sex may be great, he may be passionate, he may pay extraordinary attention to you and there may even be the faintest hint that sometime in the future, who knows but the two of you might actually be together. But for right now, he has to leave to get home to his wife's bed. Wow, what a life. But it's done every day by single women and married men and single men and married women. So consider how much of a learning experience you really want.
2007-05-13 19:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can date anyone. It does not matter if it is the right thing to do or not, because marriage does not stop very many from doing that.
Is it the right thing to do to date a married man? No.
People date generally because they are looking for the right one. If he is married, it will take a lot to change that. Some men fool around without no intentions of ever leaving the wife. Not to mention some wives will fight tooth and nail for what they have even if her husband is a turd to start with.
If he has children, as most married men do, you can count on it that if he leaves her for you, and you marry him, they will never forgive you for busting up the family. You will catch more heat than he will. People will freely call you names, like whore, home wrecker, slut, ect....
So, do yourself a favor, as well as his wife, and their children, and even the man who is stupid enough to date outside his marriage, give it a lot of thought. If it does not sound like the life you want to end up with, hated and scorned, then decline his offer. If you love drama, crying, and endlessly defending yourself, then take him up on it.
2007-05-13 21:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear
After reading all the abover answers., and understanding them, i still feel that u can date a married man.
Dating doesnt mean u want to marry him.
Sure it wont give a way to think that u r making his wifes life miserable!
if he is really good, i m sure he wont give in to u too...!
May b he is so clever that he cant let his wife know about this! then i m sure he is good that he dint leave any option to make his wife know about u!!
then he sure deserves ur date..
ok
Leave all above and what i was trying to say.
GIVE ME A SINGLE AND GOOD REASON AS TO WHY U SHOULDNT DATE A MARRIED MAN!!
U cant stop each and everyone from dating him on the earth! right! or u cant send that message!
I WANNA DATE A MARRIED WOMAN AND I AM SINGLE..
GUYS MIND IT?
NOT SURE HOW MANY GO FOR IT OR OPPOSE IT!
BUT U KNOW.. WE ARE COMING OFF.. OFF AGES..
DATING IS NOTHING.. THEY ARE LIVING TOGETHER.. WITHOUT ONE GETTING DIVORCED! HOW THE HELL I GET TO KNOW ABOUT THAT! AS LONG AS ASSOLES ARE AROUND..
JUST BELIVE IN U..AND DO WHAT U WANT.
SURE I WAS HARSH.. BUT I M SORRY..THTS THE FACT..
2007-05-14 09:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sanjeev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do what you want. If you have an opportunity to experience with someone in this life you need to do it. I am married and I let my wife date, because I know there are some things I won't be able to give her. But I would have rather have the things we can give each other than lose her the others.
2007-05-15 07:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by hispanoloco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea! First of all...that is the worst thing a woman can do to another woman. There is nothing worse! Trust me...I've been separated from my husband for awhile now for just this reason. I can't even put into words how bad it hurts to find out your husband is with someone else. There are no words... Second, if he's cheating to date you, don't fool yourself. Do you really think you're "the one" who will tame him? Yeah right! Why in the world would you trust someone who you already know is a cheater. It only gets easier the more times someone cheats. I'll say again...bad idea!
2007-05-13 21:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can and should are 2 different words, you can but should you? If he wants to date you why is he married? In the end somebody will probably get hurt and that will most likely be you.
2007-05-13 19:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this. You get married to the man of your dreams. Would you want him with other women. I think not. Do the wife a favor and don't let her husband be an ***. That's not even a very good question to ask when you know the reaction.
2007-05-13 19:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by lilwldblnd954 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can date a married man if you are his wife, but if your not,don't go there or else you will break a home that was already put together.
2007-05-14 01:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is another question. I don't know, can you date a marries man?
2007-05-13 19:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by tigger0962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do whatever u want its a free world but ..i dont think u should if ur a responsible citizen coz this will break 3 hearts finally ..that married couples and your heart ..so NO Is the right answer ..there are many single good looking guys available in the world ..if u really wanna date someone single hit me up ..lol
2007-05-13 19:22:00 · answer #11 · answered by Mike R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋