when a guy keeps callin you and texting you all day and all night do you like the attention?
if you didn't like him doing so would you tell him?
and if you did like him doing so would you ignore him from time to time to keep the calls coming??
2007-05-13 19:13:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes I love that..it tells me he actually likes and thinks about me!
2007-05-13 19:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would tell him to stop calling me at night because most likely he would be disturbing my sleeping time. If I liked the guy I would definitely enjoy the attention that he was showing to me. If I considered him to be a friend I wouldn't think to much into it if the messages were normal because I have some friends who do that now. If I didn't like him I probably just would stop responding to his texts and he would get the message eventually. If he didn't stop I would then tell him that I wasn't into him and might offer friendship unless he was mean. Then I would tell him to stay away from me. But I'm going to assume since he has my number that we are at least friends because I don't give it out to anyone.
2007-05-13 19:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't like the attention. It's called stalking and it's against the law. I would, indeed, tell him at the beginning that I didn't like it and he should stop it. And I definitely wouldn't be into playing such an idiot game as ignoring him in hopes of keeping the calls coming. BTW, who is paying for all these calls? Keep in mind, you do get billed for incoming as well as outgoing messages.
2007-05-13 19:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being attentive is good...but overkill can be scary. 1 or 2 texts throughout the day is sweet.
I would tell a person if they were being annoying...but some are not comfortable in confrontations. If you like her, don't be confrontational.
I don't play games like that. Maybe I'm busy or losing patience/interest...be careful not to cross into the scary zone!
2007-05-13 19:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by icychante 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the attention.
wouldn't tell, just would stop responding totally.
I think that if a girl is getting called and texted by a guy, one that she likes, it's nice to get the attention, but also, it's exciting to anticipate the next text and stuff. don't be super speedy in responding. wait a couple minutes to respond and then you won't seem needy/clingy, but fast enough to maintain interest.
2007-05-13 19:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games, games, games...As a girl, it is fun to text each other when both are doing it, if she is not texting you back, then she is annoyed by it, and she probably won't tell you she dislikes it to be nice to you. But, I have made a guy wait a bit to get back with him, did like him. Too much is not good, how about slowing it down a bit...then she will wonder what is up with you, back to games, just sleep together and get it over with!
2007-05-13 19:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by hpage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl... for there is a fine balance. I don't want anyone to call me and text me all day, all night. I also don't want someone who ignores me for like days at a time and makes no time for me. If someone does too much, I ignore them and if they do too little I ignore them because either way it lights a fire under their butt to get it together!
2007-05-13 19:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We LOVE the attention. And if we don't - personally, I act really bored... If he asks me out, I don't go... and sometimes I dont answer the texts.
I wouldn't tell him that I didn't like him - only if he asked.
And if she is ignoring you from time to time, maybe she is playing hard to get, or maybe she isn't interested.
2007-05-13 19:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not stalk the poor girl. its nice to know that somebody is thinking about you, however if its constantly she might get annoyed and end up not liking you. And as far as her telling you if she doesn't like you that all depends on the situation and your relationship of course. make sure you give time to respond to your calls/text.
2007-05-13 19:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by brittany b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it. I find it incredibly annoying when someone wants to be on the phone with me all day. I ignore it because I ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior.
2007-05-13 19:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, what you are talking about is childish and immature---you need to get a hobby and keep all the calls and messages to a minimum---eventually you have to stop it so don't appear to be a jerk---call once--say hi, how was your day......blah blah blah. Get a clue before you blow yourself out of the water prematurely.
2007-05-13 19:18:11 · answer #11 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋