In awkward position rt now. I'm married & had been involved with this married woman for 3 mos. We had a great time together. We were intimate, we were friends. I wasn't talking to her as much as in the beginning. I still talked to her every day or so but she felt we were growing apart. I made mistake of posting on a board a fantasy I had. She did a search for me & found it. Turned her off. She said it changed everything. It was awkward 4 me 2 have 2 explain 2 her. Now she doesn't want to have anything to do w/ me despite the fact that she said she would remain friends with me. I am hurt & bitter. I actually fell for this one. I like her & not just because of the sex. I know so many things about her & I know she wants divorced from her husband. She wants it on her terms. I'm contemplating telling him everything. I run the risk of her finding my wife & telling on me or coming to my job & making a scene. This would ruin her. Should I tell her husband or let this one go?
2007-05-13 19:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Big Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is unfortunate that you chose to cheat on your wife, however, I wont pass judgment on you...my advice would be let it go! You see karma has a way of biting you in the ***; the relationship with the other woman should have never occurred in the first place.
2007-05-13 20:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by ChickADee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is obvious - go forth and ruin 4 lives (more including the children)
Or you can show compassion and admit that you should have posted that story on the board. You may not have started the relationsip but it is you who has ruined it!!
2007-05-14 03:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang man, what a tough situation you got going on. My suggestion would to be go to your nearest bridge and jump off of it because you are a worthless a$shole and a piece of fu
2007-05-14 03:00:35
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Will revenge benefit you? I'm willing to think that the answer is no. It will almost certainly not make you feel well to cause this woman severe pain. My advise: back off from the whole affair, and while you're at it concentrate on solving your own marital problems.
2007-05-14 02:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one is simple..just let it go. Its not worth all the problems. This is just an enfatuation that will pass in time. In the mean time, you may want to consider divorcing your wife since you obviously are willing to cheat on her.
2007-05-14 02:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself and leave the woman alone. You posted it, you can't blame her for feeling how she feels, so why would you want to take her down and ruin her life? You're pathetic.
2007-05-14 03:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it. It's better to have collateral protection. If she comes after you (tries to ruin your relationship) then go after her. But other wise don't do anything.
P.S.
I find you pathetic, bitter, and shallow.
2007-05-14 02:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, ruin her...you are both scum...let's see who will win the title of the lowest of the low disgusting piece of sh-t.
you cheating son of a b-tch, shame on you.
2007-05-14 02:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by myohmymyohmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself...You obviously lusted for a woman who didn't lust for you...You had the hots for her, but she didn't have the hots for you...
2007-05-14 02:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋