Kissing? ..Please Answer.?

Question

ok sooo this is going to sound wierd but have you ever heard of that quote '16 and never been kisses'? That would be me!
I have never been kissed before and all my friends have..the school disco is coming up and all my friends think i should 'hook up' with one of the guys..they don't know that i have never kissed a guy before and I dont want them to know eiether! Its really embarassing..What do I do? How do you kiss someone? ..oh im so embarassed even asking this question..

Answer 1

Be bold. Most boys like it very much when a girl takes charge. You should make the first few moves, but make sure he is comfortable with them and with you. Just make sure you're ready for this.
Steps

1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows, or just by talking nicely to him.
2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
3. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys love holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
4. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
5. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
6. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, ditto. If he is angry, then abort the situation- no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
7. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again.


Tips

* The first few times that you kiss him make sure that it's not in front of a whole bunch of people--especially people that you or he knows. A lot of boys are uncomfortable kissing in front of other people, yet enjoy it in private. Secluded areas are an excellent place to make your move!
* Wear clear lip gloss over a lipstick, but don't be constantly putting it on.
* Don't smoke, and avoid alcoholic drinks. Brush your teeth regularly. Always carry a breath freshener (chewing gum, mints, whatever).
* Don't make a mess out of it. Not the first kiss. It may be unpleasant for some people.
* Make yourself available, but don't attack him. Let him know that you're ready but allow him to go in for the kill.
* Most guys want to kiss you. If you think he wants to kiss you, but just is too shy, go ahead and move in.


Warnings

* Make sure that if all you want to give is a kiss, you make clear that is all you are going to give. Be in control. Set your limits. Think.
* Accept rejection. If you are more mature about it, they may start to like you and change their mind.
Hope it helps.Good Luck!!
):-)

Answer 2

Just like they do it in the movies. Watch closely. Heads tilt slightly so noses don't bump, eyes close, mouths open gently and lips press together. If that feels good, then the lips can open a bit more and tongues can begin exploring. You're not looking to clean teeth, just to touch the other tongue, then perhaps gently caress the inside of the upper lip of your partner. Chewing motions with the mouth may or m ay not be helpful but watch the teeth clanging together. Also, watch for the hands moving over your body. Sometimes that becomes part of kissing.

Answer 3

Don't fret hun. I'm 18 and still have yet to be asked out even once. It's not such a big deal. Don't give in to peer pressure. There is no need for you to do anything that your friends want you to do.

Kissing a random guy at the disco will not only be embarrassing for you but for him too. And it could start some strange, nasty rumors about you in school.

Just be yourself and when the time is right, it'll happen. Don't force it. Let time and nature take their courses.

Answer 4

Kissing is a fun area to explore. Don't worry, I don't think there is a way to do it wrong. If you've seen a kissing scene in a movie, you know enough to do it yourself.

Things you might try include varying where you kiss, (think neck, ears, and jaw line especially) or pressure. Kissing with an open mouth sounds 'unpleasant' at first, but it will likely grow on you if you try it.

Answer 5

nothing to be embarrassed about--kissing is great and the first time is always a bit awkward--but like anything else--the more you do it the better it gets,even if you have kissed lots of guys ,the first kiss with someone you havnt kissed before is a bit awkward--there are no rules or directions you just lean in and kiss them,or you let them make the first move ,just dont drool ! you will do just fine

Answer 6

Don't worry. I have never been kissed before.

And you know you are getting pressured about something you dont wanna do, If they really are your friends, they should respect you.

And girl, IF I WERE YOU, I AM GOING TO SAVE THAT FIRST KISS FOR SOMEONE SPECIAL. Dont be like them, since you only get your "first kiss" once. Save it.

Answer 7

Don't submit to peer pressure. Remember, you don't HAVE to kiss or "hook up" with any guy just coz your friends say so. If you don't want to kiss a guy, then don't.

All you do is put your lips to his and kiss. It's no different than kissing anyone else.

Answer 8

at the start you ought to not evaluate your self with this woman. What an extremely undesirable occasion. you're merely 13 and the standard guy or woman gets married at 24. If something you ought to study from her errors. what's the enormous hurry now a days with kissing and intercourse. save your self honey, the boys would be extra fascinated in you in case you have not slept with the full college. relish your teenage years you merely get them as quickly as.

Answer 9

Well, I always put my arms around my bf, then lean against him. I'm sure the guy you're hugging will start to kiss your neck or nibble your ears. If not, you make the first move and kiss his neck. Then, move up and kiss his cheek. He'll start feeling the sensation to kiss you(on your lips) back, and when he does, you kiss him back. Open your mouth slightly ONLY when you feel his tongue at your lips. How's that??

Answer 10

If it makes you feel better, the first time I ever kissed a girl, the girl leaned in and missed. How do you think SHE felt? Don't do it until it feels right.