Why am I so lonely and my heart so empty?

Question

150 million women in the U.S., and not one of them will have anything to do with me. I have no one to confide in, no one to laugh and be merry with; just a dead end temp job which I'll probably lose because of jury duty. Don't give me that religion BS, that schit just makes me sucidal. I need a decent woman to go out with--to make my life a litte more worthwhile, perhaps?

Answer 1

Sigh. It's going to be fine, just remember that it just takes time. You're not the only one out there who feels like this. I think you should take a break and quit worrying so much about girls not liking you. Instead, do something, practice something, or find something that you want to be in life. It all takes time. I bet if you become great at some kind of sport, game, anything, then someday a girl will be impressed. Don't give up, just remember to always be nice no matter what, become the nice guy in town, but never give up because someday, I PROMISE YOU!! that someday some girl will want to be with you.

:] good luck.

ps. remember what i said, Don't give up! and also remember, it just takes time to find that one girl :]

Answer 2

Okay, no religion, just realism. If you can't like yourself how can you expect someone else to like you? You sound like you're down on yourself. Tough for anyone to become interested in someone who bad-mouths them self. So think about some of your great and wonderful qualities. Focus on your virtues. Shine your shoes, comb your hair and pick up the phone and ask out a girl. Then spend the evening focusing on her, not on you. Ask her questions. Don't tell her your life story, don't talk about your defeats, your losses, your anything. Talk about her. What she likes, likes to do, where she goes and what she likes to see. Try something different on a date, such as rollerskating, or go to a planetarium, or the opera or a play. Surprise her and yourself with what you do. And enjoy the experience. But mostly, learn to enjoy yourself and to like yourself. That's really important.

Answer 3

NAWH SHORTY AINT NO OLD TIME RELIGION BS FROM CEYISHA JUST STRAIGHT UP OPINION AND INFORMATION FROM SIMILAR SITUATIONS AND THINGS.
I AM WONT TELL THAT YOU NEED A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE. LONELINESS IS A STATE OF MIND AND EMPTINESS JUST FOLLOWS SUIT. YEAH THERE IS ALOT OF WOMEN IN THE US. THATS GREAT. QUESTION: HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO BE AROUND YOU?
HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE, NEED OR WANT YOURSELF?
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IS YOU WANT IN THIS WOMAN? YOU MAKE YOUR OWN LIFE WORTH LIVING FIRST OF ALL. NO ONE WANTS SOMEONE WHO DOESNT THINK HIGHLY OF THEIR LIFE. NEVER THINK THAT ANOTHER PERSON COMPLETES YOU SO MUCH. MAKE SURE YOU TREAT HER WELL WHEN SHE COMES OR YOU WILL ONCE AGAIN DEAL WITH LONELY/EMPTY. EXCITE YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU BOTHER TO THINK OF SOMEONE EXCITING IT FOR YOU. ASK YOURSELF WHY WOULDNT SOMEONE WANT ME. CHECK OUT YOU AND THEN GO HUNTING FOR YOUR WOMAN. IT IS THE ETERNAL NEED TO BELONG AND BE EXCEPTED AND ALSO TO PROCREATE. (I BELIEVE THAT DRIVES US TO LONG FOR COMPANIONSHIPS OF ANY KIND.) 1+1= 2 NOT ALL THE TIME. GL

Answer 4

I feel like I am in the same boat...but apparently we are the only ones that can truly make ourselves happy....which in turn is suppose to make us more of a traget of attraction...thats what all these books I read say anyways..has it worked for me? Not really, I am still looking for someone to laugh with etc...

Answer 5

Are u sure of what ur saying? I think u really neesd somebody to understand you & cheer u up!

Well, if u like u can confide me anytime. If ur interested just look at my file in this site & u know who I am. I could be your friend If u want.....hahahah!

Answer 6

lonely guy, that's life...I'm sure half of the populations are asking the same question too...me including.
yes, it makes you wonder if life is worth living sometimes...
can't really help or have a real good answer here.
but good luck.