A married couple where the wife is suffering from low libido and the Man is always sex starving. what to do??

Question

The above question is from a Man.

Answer 1

It could be a hormonal thing for her. Has she talked to her doctor about it? Try communicating and see what each of you expect from your sexual relationship. Me and my hubby suffered the same crisis...man did it suck. We just got so caught up in our own lives that things just weren't as romantic to me as they were before. We went on dates. He made me dinner. We actually had conversations and watched movies together. It was really great and it helped me understand him a lot more. I can't speak for him, but I think that both of us are in a much better place now. Good Luck.

Answer 2

If she's on medication that may be the problem. Some of them just kill the libido. If it's not meds... Here's were you start... Even if she's the ugliest woman on earth, make her feel like she's the sexiest. For example: When she's standing by the stove with her ugly apron, tell her that the heat of the stove is making her skin flush and she's glowing. When she's cleaning something, tell her that her butt wiggles in the most delicious way. Say these things then walk away. You'll make her feel beautiful without the pressures of intercourse. If you want, you can give her a quick kiss on the cheek, but walk away. Do this for a while and her resistance will melt away. Eventually she'll look at physical intimacy with a new look. It will be making love, not a chore to be scheduled between washing the floor and doing the dishes. This is not a quick fix, it's a permanent one. It takes time, but hopefully it'll be worth it. Good luck.

Answer 3

Hi....I saw all the answers and they are the normal crap that you have already tried and has not worked and that is why this question. I asked this before and also got the same type of answer it all doesn't work.
-Have a discreet relationship, there is so many woman out there and so are website (adultfinder).
-I was shock when I went to the website and found I am not the only man and there is so many man and woman like that.

This is the best and most workable solution.

Answer 4

I guess thats married life,i go through the same thing with my wife.I've just learn to deal with it,and to enjoy the heck out of it when i do get it.I told my wife since i only got it once every one or two weeks,i should at least get to make the best of it,so i go at no holds barred.

Answer 5

As said there are different things that help this like pills and other stuff like Spanish fly drops that is a liquid you just pour into a drink. Other than that I would just make her feel loved and special and tell her how sexy she is. That does it. By the way Spanish fly is not illegal.

Answer 6

A counselor or doctor for the wife & A Blow-up doll for the husband since he's so 'starved' for sex!

Maybe you can masterbate your husband. He'd appreciate the effort, I think!

Answer 7

the wife problems could be fixed by making a trip to her dr. and letting him know what is going on as for you just be patient and continue to love her because this sounds like a medical problem so you need to be understanding and supportive of her and the situation

Answer 8

masterbate lot may help that may help with M.S.B.(MALE SPERM BUILD UP)

The guy above my answer that said you should comite adultery I would think has no morals and I would hope his wife finds out and leaves his cheating *** and takes him for all he has.

The guy is scum.

Answer 9

Talk to her about the situation. There are pills that a woman can take to increase her desire, if she is willing to take them.

Answer 10

time to see a doctor