Should I begin to put myself out there to date?. My divorce isn't final yet. I am 1/2 ways there.?

Question

And If you tell me, "Yes" how do I go about it doing the dating scene?

Answer 1

Wait until the divorce is final. It will avoid any hint of wrong-doing on your part.

And if the divorce is less than amicable, it will deprive your estranged spouse ammo to use against you.

Answer 2

I would not date until the divorce is final and all papers have been finalized. Then, I would be very, very picky; wouldn't want to make the same mistake twice. [Do you have children? Think about their welfare as well]. Hopefully, you have learned a lot from past mistakes in the failed marriage. Reflect on what you have learned and be cautious. Myself, I wouldn't be too anxious to jump into another relationship so soon. Give yourself a fresh, new make-over. Concentrate on improving your financial status, etc. your credibility. Don't you want to be even better, the second time around. Statistics are not too impressive for second marriages. The more "aware" and knowledgable you are, the better your chances at success.

Answer 3

This is a common concern of recently divorced men and women. The usual resources are friends and family, work, the gym, the hardware store, the music store. It takes a willingness to be told "No" and the realization that rejection doesn't mean a negative judgment as much as it means the other is simply not interested. If "putting yourself out there" means accepting a date, go for it. Just remember that those who are just out of one serious relationship are extremely vulnerable and quite likely to fall into another relationship, very quickly, and almost identical to the one they just left. So be careful and don't be too hasty. And, good luck. .

Answer 4

I am going to assume you are legit and not a troll.. You have to answer a question first; is it really, really over, even though your divorce is not final? If so, and you are absolutely SURE it is over, then by all means get out there and date. If you have a doubt, then NO, wait and see. Maybe you will change your mind. Maybe conditions will change. Don't jump into the lake just because others have...

Answer 5

If your not in a rush, I would wait until the process is final. I wouldn't want any complications. When your out in the dating scene, you want to be truthful and genuine. You don't want to deal with the fact that your technically not fully available. It's not wrong to, but it may be easier to wait. Good luck^__^.

Answer 6

hope you're not being lonely and i won't suggest putting yourself out there to date but to leave it open. enjoy being single and figure out what went wrong in the first relationship. It's your second chance in life and this time, know what you wan in your next (can't afford to have another blow)!
keep your eyes and mind open, meeting through recommendation through friends or activities will be a better source.

Answer 7

Things have changed since I was divorced the first time...Yeah, put it out there...AGE is a factor, and people are soooo Judgemental these days...Ink ain't on the paper don't mean SQUAT...show your Stuff...club it, or video, your choice.

Answer 8

you sl@t, you will burn in hell !!! :D

just kidding ya....why not ?? if you have gone through with a divorce proceedings the relationship must not have been good for a long time.

How do u go about it?? LOL You cant find books (well you can but they aint worth it)

Answer 9

yeah go for it the divorce is already in motion. why waist anymore time.. you are not going to be with him so u might as well enjoy YOUR time to go ut adn be single... dont wast it away

Answer 10

don't just jump into dating. go out with girlfriends. get used to being single. concentrate on yourself. you will know when you are ready.