I met this guy. I want a relationship, he seems decent. But he is what most HOT girls would call a complete loser. He is not built, he is not good looking, and he sounds as if he is gay but he isnt. Through his voice i mean and sum of the things he does.
This guy likes me, and i was going to d8 him to see how things went, but my gfs would be shocked if i did and giv us a hard time about it. Specially me. I am worried about what they think, and i am kinda embaressed about it. Imagine you were me, what would you do?
2007-05-13 22:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by louise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i did not post this question to get abused tyvfm!
Just was just wondering what other ppl would do IF they felt the same way.
2007-05-13 22:41:22 · update #1
Some of the greatest guys aren't regularly labeled "cute". They try harder, have great personalities and see that looks aren't all that important. Go for it I say. If you find him enjoyable who cares how he looks. Trust me, when you've been w/someone for a while, you look pass all that. You see how their inner self is the best beauty. Like haven't you see "hot" guys but total jerks? Doesn't it make him totally unattractive? I say go for it. If they are true friends, they may make their comment at first but bite their tongue when a) they find out you like him or b) they find out what make you like him and like him for the same reasons. Good luck!
2007-05-13 22:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's always hard to make choices your friends would make fun of, but in the end it is your life, not theirs. You will always find someone who doesn't agree or understand with what you do, so if you start acting according to other's judgement you will never do what makes you happy.
If they are your friends they should just be happy for you and support you. I'd say go for it or you will always wonder what it could have been like.
2007-05-13 22:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In 5 or 10 years time you'll have wound up the sort of woman complaining that you can't find a decent guy (because you've rejected every decent guy who has approached you).
Get over yourself. And your friends.
2007-05-13 22:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a Korean lady buddy for a couple of minutes, it grow to be a sort of tri-lingual relationship- we the two spoke tremendously reliable jap, and that i spoke merely a sprint Korean, and she or he spoke merely a sprint English... nicely, I hate to call it a trip romance, yet that grow to be sufficient for us interior the quick on an identical time as we've been jointly- whats up! Seven weeks! It grow to be tremendously severe although, we've been assembly daily if achieveable. Then a chinese language lady buddy. I have no chinese language, and she or he grow to be quite gaining expertise of English, yet i grow to be mad approximately her, so I merely tried as lots staying power as achieveable. tried to assist her improve her English, checked her writing, however the different ingredient is that we spent time lots, and went places jointly. i think of that's the key, on the only hand spending time jointly, and being affected person on the different. you are going to start finding out on up on the nuances of one yet another's physique language merely with the aid of being jointly, that's an advantage, and in case you're taking a while to make issues clean whilst there is fake effect, it's going to experience reliable- you build have faith, and you will make errors, particular, yet trial and mistake is the way it is going. do no longer forget approximately that the language barrier is observed by a cultural hollow... I used to think of that coming from 2 diverse cultures grow to be certainly an advantage to a relationship, giving it existence, and making us pay greater interest to a minimum of one yet another, putting greater attempt into the relationship as a result... perhaps that grow to be so, yet later on a buddy pronounced that it must be tougher to study symptoms and symptoms/realize faults whilst in a relationship with somebody from yet another way of existence. i think of that must be actual as nicely. reliable success guy! each and every of the terrific to you!
2016-10-15 22:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay mommy, you should not care about what your friends think. You're the one who likes him, right? Go for it and forget what everyone else thinks. At the end of the day, you're the only one that has lived your life.
2007-05-13 22:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do exactly whatever I wanted to do. Why do you worry so much about what other people think? It's your life, not theirs!!
2007-05-13 22:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋