I've been faithful to one girl for four years. We match on every level, except sexually. She's a once a month person and im... i prefer a lot more than that. Im in college and there are quite a few girls that like me, some very pretty. My ex just came back to the city and she is really pushing the issue for me to sleep with her. I dont want to cheat but my girlfriend's "once a month" thing isnt making it easy for me. What should i do?
2007-05-17 22:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you actually discussed this with your girlfriend? Although sex is an important part of a relationship, dont let this ruin what you have. If you truely love this girl, you'll tell her how you feel and wont ditch her for a girl, who yes will let you sleep with her more, but possibly who you wont connect with on a mental level. Think about it!
2007-05-17 22:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lucccy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl has to give it up more often. Make her understand that it's like being hungry, a physical need, not just a whimsical thought "I think I'd like sex today". You're a man with an appitite and you need to eat. Tell your that you only want her and you don't want to cheat on her, but when you're hungry all the time and there's food all over the place it makes it hard not to take a nibble of this or a nibble of that. If she's not interested in taking care of your needs, kick her to the curb and go on an eating binge. Good luck.
2007-05-17 22:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your gf: sexual compatibility is VERY important in a relationship first and in a marriage then. Can you really think of spending you life with a 'once a month' woman??..If she's like this now, imagine what she'll be like in a few years!! Once every 6 months maybe?;)..And, of course, take your chances with the other girls after breaking up;)
2007-05-17 22:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i'll tell you one thing! and yes, of course im going to say this line to you too! "take it from someone who's done the cheating and been cheated on!" so n e wayz, i'll tell you one thing! you do NOT want to cheat on your gf! have you ever been cheated on? i guess what im trying to say is.. put yourself in her shoes, after you have cheated on her. would you like to have the same feelings she's had? or.. would you rather just be with someone who matches everything up perfectly with you. besides dude! sex isn't everything you know... i don't care who you are! sex isn't everything! everything should be everything that you and your gf matches up with, everything should be the good and special times you both share.
2007-05-17 22:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your gl then don't take the chance. You do realize that your gf will eventually find out and you will pay the price?
2007-05-17 22:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her to visit her GP, she can get help to increase her libido. Explain to her that you want to be with her more often. There could be an underlying medical reason that her libido is so low.
2007-05-17 22:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you're not sexually compatible and move one
2007-05-17 22:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4yrs is not 4days,if you cheat on her she will deffnetly know oneday,so pls keep on trying,and talk to her tell her how you feel and your intention.
2007-05-17 22:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be a loser if you cheat on her. Let me make it clear for you.
2007-05-17 22:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you gotta get your girlfriend to ante up, relationships are give and take-explain your needs
2007-05-17 22:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by yo-han 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋