I am shy around most girls and I really like this girl who's one of my friends.I want to go out with her except she already has a boyfriend.Should I try and break upo their relationship or not.I'm confused.
Help me out and give me some advice please!
2007-05-17 22:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by janeilhomeblack 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, you've got to let her relationship take its course. You have no right to make a move unless her relationship ends - and don't even *think* about trying to end it. She might hate you for it if this happens.
However, if they do break up, then as her friend you'll definitely want to be around to comfort her if she needs help coping. She'll appreciate your company. Only then can you think about asking her out, and at that time you wouldn't want to say anything to attack her ex or suggest that he didn't appreciate her enough. That would stay in the past.
Meanwhile, don't feel afraid to talk to other people. Girls your age have no special power over you - sometimes they'll be just as shy. You never EVER have to rush into any relationships. Feel happy with your friends and in time that special girl will come along and like everything about you, and you will like everything about her. (Assuming you're a teenager, time is something we don't like to wait for...!)
Best of luck.
2007-05-17 23:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No, never try to break up a relationship. You need to stay away from her if she has a boyfriend. You can be just friends only.....
If you try to break up a relationship there are a couple of things:
What would that girl think of you? I would think that the morals of the person who are doing that would be wrong, even though it is flattering that someone likes me. I do not go for those who are that way. To me it is wrong. What is going to happen will happen. You cannot change it.
Another thing is that each person will probably dislike and disrespect you more for being that way.
Find another girl who is NOT attached. How would you feel if you were dating someone and some guy tried to break you up? Put yourself in their shoes. She may not like you more than a friend, and if you try to break them up, you will lose all respect she may have had for you.
Find another girl and be her friend. If things develop later, it will be a pleasant surprise. Never Never try to mess things up with someone who is in a relationship with someone else. That is Bad.
2007-05-17 23:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT ruin her relationship with her bf or she'll hate you forever.... i under stand you have feelings for her but if u really care about her then u don't want to hurt her in any way
so just take it easy...and give it time maybe u will find some one else
2007-05-17 23:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by girrrrrly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should think about this She seems too be happy with her bf and if shes gonna date someone whos willing to break 2 people up for his own purpose she may not be happy, you have to think about youre friends feelings i say let her be and you find someone else you oly want her because shes with someone else and at the moment youre single you wat someone
Sorry man but if you love youre friend let her be
2007-05-17 23:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinking about breaking their relatinship itself proves that u r selfish and dat u don really love her. u cannot think of breaking ur friendship and u cannot make the other person love u either. u can b friendz wid her and also try luck wid other girls may b her friends. wishing u luck.
2007-05-17 23:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by miss_amal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find in wat she is haapy in. if u will broke anothers love u would never get yours remember this
2007-05-17 23:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋