2007-05-17 23:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by gracious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No.. It depends how bad the lad is really.
2007-05-17 23:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn'tnds, if you really love that person you shouldn't. The reason that the 13 year old boy disobeys you have a reason. Kids from 10 to 15 are very emotional and gets hurt easily. You should talk it over with your love and the boy together. Or you can try communicating with him like going to the movies or the mall.
2007-05-18 06:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by JessieInLALALand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can break up with anyone at any time for any reason , but i feel it is a little over the top to end a relationship with someone over a person who wont always be there with you all the time . and as for obeying you, please Hun i have 5 children and they don't obey me , yes they listen to me and do as i ask if it isn't a unreasonable request , but obeying is a strong and force full thing . you didn't state how long you have been in this relationship or what the terms of his fathers separation is. id say at 13 this young lad (who at this age has a lot on his plate as it is with school and puberty) is going to take time to get used to the idea , he doesn't need a new mum or another boss , my best advise to you is talk to him and try and be a friend , explain to him you love his dad and you don't want to be his parent unless he want you to, but you would like it if you could respect each other and become friends. after all that would make dad happier and you both love him ,so put your differences behind you and get on for his sake ...... and leave the parenting to his parents , you wont get anywhere charging in telling him what to do , you need his respect first and then his trust before he is ever going to listen to you ...
2007-05-18 07:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by kerrlollypop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If you have just came in to the situation, don't exspect him to obey you. Only the parent can dish out the order and you just have to be the support. You need to understand you haven't been there for the child growing up so who are you to come in and through around orders. Put yourself in the boys shoes.
On the other hand if you have been involved for a while then you need to take another approach and why would you want to leave if you have been a part of the childs life for a while??
2007-05-18 06:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf isn't helping you with this and is allowing his son to be like that towards you then you have no choice but to break up with him.I have gone through the same thing a couple times myself. Teenagers are really moody and go through stages. My current gf has 2 boys 13 and 14. When they got to the 13 yr old mark they really got mouthy and love to argue. I had to walk away a few times just to avoid him. It only lasted a couple months but it was a long couple of months. Good luck
2007-05-18 06:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by luv2fish2extremes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can break up with any person for any reason.........and also, if this person truly loved you, then he would make the 13 yr boy at least respect you......good luck
2007-05-18 06:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could, but why let him win? Have his dad put his foot down. Tell you bf that if he doesn't straighten out the situation with his son, you wil be forced to leave him.
2007-05-18 06:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can break up with anybody for any reason I suppose
2007-05-18 06:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋