No, I am NOT a bad person. It's just that there is this girl who ANNOYS the hell out of me SO BADLY it's all I can do to stop myself from killing her right there on the spot. She's also my friend. I tried counting to a billion, and trying to reason with her but I just get so stressed out, I don't know what to do anymore! It's complicated... I want to try and get her to see that she can't just walk all over me. I want to ruin her life JUST FOR A WHILE, just to make a point... I already decided to steal her school books (we're in year 10 and no, I'm not immature), and I just don't think it's enough. She lies to everyone but pretends to be so sweet and nice, and people are beginning to get sick of it. Any ideas on how I can "ruin" her life SECRETLY WITHOUT anybody finding out?
P.S. I'm really sorry if I'm coming off as an awful person. It's just that there's a line, and she crossed it, stepped on it, smudged it, ran over it, and now there is no line, there's just a pissed off me.
2007-05-17 23:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-17 23:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you say your not immature! Dont you think there is a reason be hide the way she acts? Maybe she has problems at home? Maybe she doesn't know how to comunicate very well. You say she is "your friend" but what kind of are friend are you ? who needs enemys! I feel sorry for you that you are such a weak person that if she is a so called friend, you cant talk to her and explain how you feel. You say she lies yet you want to "ruin her life" and "secretly without anyone finding out" But your "not immature" and "dont want to come off as a bad person!" PLEASE. Grow up!
2007-05-17 23:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Psycho Chicken! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to know what you put out in the world always come back full circle If you do something mean or cruel it will come back to you three fold Maybe she has something happening in her life that is makeing her act crazy these days Just walk away from the friendship for awhile till she calms down Let her know I am not happy with your actions right now and if you continue this behavoir I can t be your friend Tell her I like you as a friend but when you act as you do you are hurting yourself and others
2007-05-17 23:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely. A similar thing happened to me with a friend of mine years ago. He used to piss me off bad and I hated it when I used to ignore his calls then he would come to my house anyway. He phoned me at work one day and asked me if I was coming out that evening. I said No! and put the phone down.
Basically you CAN choose your friends. Try and speak to her like an adult and tell her of your grievances. If she is a true friend she will thank you and change her ways.
Or ultimately stop spending time with her gradually. Distance yourself from her. Don't call her she will get the hint eventually.
Don't destroy her life that is childish. Just move onto a new circle of friends. Be a bit more mature, friends do come and go in life.
If all else fails smack her in the teeth. Only joking. Lol.
You see sometimes people can get jealous of their friends and without knowing it wish that they have a downfall and bad luck! trust me.
2007-05-18 00:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by youronmyfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP STOP STOP
I HAD A same story but in 4th grade and landed loosing my appointment of prefect so don't steal the books best is SOCIAL BYCOT LEAVE HER alone get all your friends on one side its the biggest punishment.
even i'm not evil but somehow out of million one person always lands up called troubler and this troublers are highly irritating
2007-05-17 23:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by JASZY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. If she is that kind of person, she will ruin her own life. In the meantime, just avoid her and her childish actions. If you hear something that bothers you, just say "Oh that is so immature!" and walk away!
2007-05-17 23:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may just be the way she is, and no one can really change another, why put yourself through all this, because people don't change, the only person u can change is u. revenge only hurts the one seeking it, if she is hurting u, distance yourself before it gets worse. why allow her to affect u like this? if she walks all over u, it may be time to leave this relationship and move on to protect your sanity.
2007-05-17 23:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop talking to her! She cant walk all over you then.... people only do what you allow them to do
2007-05-17 23:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋