i am dating a guy for 11 months. before him i liked his best friend...and i think i still like him alot...but i also love my boyfriend, what should i do??
2007-05-19 23:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by 80s princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. im 17 years old...
2007-05-19 23:11:49 · update #1
Depends how old you are... If you are young and not looking to get married anytime soon, I would let your feelings be known to both of them. You may find youself the center of a stud sandwich, and oh what a lucky girl you would be. If you are looking to get married or have an LTR, I would choose one or the other quickl.
2007-05-19 23:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy but, also the hardest. Does the best friend have feelings for you? Would you be OK with losing both in hopes of finding the real thing. Sometimes you have to step out over the edge to find the real thing. If you have feelings for 2 people already after only 11 months you may not have the real deal...
2007-05-20 06:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by aviddiver651 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up first then become a hoochie that dates a guy and all of their friends.
When I date a guy there friends are automaticly off limits only hose bags would date a guy and their best friend.
2007-05-20 06:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by juniper555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your boyfriend and NOT go out with his friend. This has become a bad situation that will not get better.
Consider your feelings for your current boyfriend, and if they aren't what you thought they were, leave him.
Good luck.
2007-05-21 20:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Happy to Help (I guess) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and attraction are different feelings, you are confused and probably immature, go deep in your heart and you will find the answer, you don't want to play games with yourself nor break someones heart!
2007-05-20 06:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may look silly but it works, just do a list of what do you like and hate in both ur boyfriend and his friend. and while doing it you will know what to do
2007-05-20 06:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your bf just ignore your feelings about his best friend! because its unfair you love your bf but then you like his best friend hmmmmmm what if time will come that you will realize that you love him also what will you do??that's not good! be stick to one ok...
2007-05-20 06:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lhilaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant love 2 at the same time, dedicate yourself to your boyfriend, treat him like no other
2007-05-20 06:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date the friend.. that's too cruel.. it's selfish too.. putting your own happiness over someone elses knowing you will hurt them.. there are a billion other guys out there.. don't do the friend...
2007-05-20 06:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask em to join you in a 3 way
2007-05-20 06:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋