Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

I have a 16 year old daughter who has had a telephonic relationship with her dad for 9 years and 4 physical visits.(his choice) Father paid $38 p/m CS for 6 years. Daughter request to live w/Dad under the presumption of no rules and a party lifestyle. After being terrorized for 6 months by her Dad, I relented. I have sent non-court ordered payments to the dad(tripled the amount he was ordered), along w/ clothing, personal items, health ins. every month. Father needs more $ to aid in his sedentary lifestyle. I supported my daughter financially since birth and will continue to do so. Problem: her father does not maintain a w-2 job. He avoided being a w-2 job to avoid an increase in child support (by choice) is a bonified habitual drug abuser.Resides w/2 other adult users. Due to her age, has anyone had any experiences where the court will allow, a percentage of $ to go direct to Dad and the rest to child ie: gift cards, bank debit cards? etc

2007-05-19 10:26:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jesse 1 in Family

I get messages a lot (clean ones you pervs out there) but my message therepist moved away. Anyway, I tried this new girl... She was very nice and did a spectacular job. However, she was very chatty (actually kind of flirty) and she massged my chest a lot. In the dozens of massages I have recieved I have never had any of them massage my chest. Is this normal and i have just never gotten this or was she being flirty? Just curios.

2007-05-19 10:25:06 · 3 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my neighbor is always making a point of becoming so helpless when my husband comes out. Yesterday, she developed this "limp" and almost "trips" in front of him. I told him that he better let her fall. She has this repeat habit of suddenly dropping something everytime we are doing any yardwork. It has not been overly warm this week, and she is wearing yeast infection shorts. I just want to kick her as hard as I can. Tuesday, we came home at almost the same time. I pulled up about a minute after my husband. This girl has bent over the window with her generic shirt flapping open, asking my husband for a ride. I told her very nicely that if she does not get her fishy, stank *** out of my husbands face that i was going to drag her. My husband says that I am being hormonal. i think that I am seeing what he is too blind to see. How would you handle it? I am leaning toward yanking her bald. What would you do?

2007-05-19 10:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine is about 10 1/2 inches, erect. Is that about average? I'm a little self-conscience.

2007-05-19 10:07:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so proud that you're actually nervous?

&

Are you ready for this, or what??

I know I am!

2007-05-19 10:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I never really was interested in him but he asked me so many times i said yes (he even went on his knees) After a month i broke up with him but he always follows me and try to get between me and the guys i flirt with. He a great guy and all but isnt ay sparks!

2007-05-19 10:02:56 · 17 answers · asked by Krystle o 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been 2gether for 3yrs. We live 2gether. We're both in our 30's and should have a healthy active sex life. We very rarely get it on, unless I initiate it. I'm an attractive and experienced woman whose never had any complaints. We haven't had relations in so long, I couldn't even say what month was the last time. I don't think he's gay b/c he has a porn collection, of which I never "catch" him watching. I've even asked to watch them with him, just to see if that would get him stimulated enough to START the festivities. No. I have to keep sayin "come on, lets watch a hot movie" b4 he'll even pop one in. I've seen his porn footprints in the computer, and those were women. I don't think he's addicted to porn, he's not glued to it all the time. He does, however have a foot fettish. He nibbles and sucks on my toes and wacks off when he "thinks" I'm asleep. He's circled the bed like a vulture checking 2c if I'm awake b4 he starts. He'd rathr do that than hav sex with me awake!

2007-05-19 10:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 09:55:11 · 1 answers · asked by tweetygirl4today 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of women allure/intrigue you(personality and looks), how can I get a guy's attention and does this sound alluring:
-Shy
-Wavy, shiny black, natural hair(not over-styled)
-Lots of black eyeliner but not in a gothic way, more of a sexy, smokey way
-Caramel brown skin
-small stud in nose(NOT septum)
-Angel wing tattoo on each ankle
-Full, but not big lips n very pink

2007-05-19 09:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my mom and grandma and I have been fighting. My mom won't talk to me and I'm at my grandmas house. My grandma took a suitcase and sleeping bags and just LEFT. I'm here alone and she could be gone for three nights for all I know. Omg. I'm just going crazy right now. Do I need to call DHS? What should I do???

2007-05-19 09:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-19 09:48:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well a few months ago i hooked up w/ a guy...not sex but still pretty bad...and i told one of my guy friends thinking he would keep my trust and not tell anybody. Well now lots of guys know and they are always talking to me about it and kinda wont let me forget it. I am steaming mad at my friend for telling. Should i talk to him?

2007-05-19 09:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Singles & Dating

are you single?


cause im not

2007-05-19 09:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by Southern Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, see, this guy and i have been having a luv hate relationship. In 4th grade he would bugg me ALL The time, and drive me INSANE. In 5th, hed bug me, but wed also have regular convos too. He always talks to me on aim, and 2 of his freinds said he liked me, but he wont admit, even when MY freinds ask..if he does. Also he used to say that i liked him and also that also ppl would say wed be the cutest couple and also stuff but wed BOTH deny it. Do you think he likes me?

2007-05-19 09:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 09:46:03 · 19 answers · asked by chevygirl69_04 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love and my (*EX*) boyfriend broke my heart in to a million pieces. And i wanna call but hearing his voice hurts me even more its too hard to be his "friend" because i want more than that and its like im going to write a note about how i feel but what should i say?????????????????????????????????

2007-05-19 09:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by bowwowrealgirl32 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at work i have been flirting with for awhile now, he always seems to be around when i come into his department, he smiles whenever he sees me, he asks about my kids, i visit him sometimes before i go home and he always asks when i am coming to see him again, he has asked me to lunch a bunch of times, just in flirting i asked him if he would me with me to florida where my best friend is and he said yes without hesitating, the other day he smiled at me the whole time i was walking up to him. I have noticed sometimes he seems nervous when talking to me, and he also helps me with whatever i am doing and tells me i am doing a good job all the time, he even said something i did was perfect and i knew it wasnt.

2007-05-19 09:43:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 6"1 && I'm 5"3. It hurts like hell when he hugs me because in order for him to put his head on my shoulder I have to bend my damn back back and stand on my tippy toes. So yea hugging him is kinda uncomfortable. I hate when he doesnt bend down to hug me and my head is like on his freakin chest. It makes me feel like im huggin my dad when I do that lol. Does anyone else have to do this problem?

2007-05-19 09:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many of you ladies are divorce . because your husband was having a affair with a much younger and hotter women than yourself... feel free to be honest

2007-05-19 09:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other day i made a really strong eye contact with a guy, we were like staring at eachother`s eyes, we wouldn`t look away , i was just holding a gaze...on purpose.
There was one more person and she was asking him stuff, so he was in fact talking to her and i was just sitting there and listening, but he was looking at me most of the time, right in the eyes, he would look at her only when she spoke or so, but he wasn`t being rude she was just boring trying to impress him by all means, but he was just into my eyes...i was like what the hell, and i wasn`t even smiling, but he seemed so into my eyes....well anyway, this is my story....
and this was meant to be a general question, but ok u can answer as u like

2007-05-19 09:42:36 · 2 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Singles & Dating

My 14 year old is making me nuts! She is doing well in school but at home she is just evil to everyone. She mantains an 85 average in 8th grade which I know is a hard grade, which I praise her for. But she is just nasty to everyone in the household. Except when she wants anything or I am taking her out. She rolls her eyes and rocks her head back and forth. We just moved to a new house in a different town, so I gave her some leeway knowing that adjusting is hard and now she is worst than ever! What can I do?

2007-05-19 09:41:50 · 14 answers · asked by welcome to my world 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my friend is soon to be sixteen and the guy who asked her out is 13. Should she still go out with him?

2007-05-19 09:40:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can someone please answer why good people get it the worst. For example today, i was saying if anyone lost their money I would give some to them. Today I lost all my money, and can't find it anywhere. Well I always give money to people even when I hardly have any and this is what I get!!!!

2007-05-19 09:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lacuna Coil 2 in Friends

I have been friends with my best friend for years. Last year she kinda started pushing me away, and started smoking. She know how i feel about it, adn promised me she would never do it again. Now she dose it all the time, and tells me its not big deal balh blah blah. I lover her to death and i dnt want to her push me away, or die of an early death. I want her to stop hanging with the trash she is hangoing out with and come back to our old groupe. How should i talk to her?

2007-05-19 09:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey everyone! to start this off if i spell sumthin wrong im sorry cause im in a hurry! I am going to the moveis with these two guys.....they are my best friends, and i really like the one. but i need to know wut i sould wear... we live in georgia so its hot......and i have terrible legs cause i got tripped in a soccer game and so my legs are really bruised! HELP!!
please answer quickly I AM LEAVING IN ABOUT AND HOUR AND A HALF!!

2007-05-19 09:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex thinks he can just come back to me because he has no girlfriend right now and is very lonely. he is one year older than me so he is just one grade ahead. i guess he thinks im just a young girl so he can take advantage or something? we went out for 3 months and its been 4 months since the break up! i havnt dated any one since then but hes had like 6-9 girlfriends.....


i have always liked him so im tempted to go back out with him

but i dont want him to think im a doormat

but i've liked him for so long....

maybe we should give it another try?

2007-05-19 09:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by angle1 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 9 months, and things have been great. We are really in love with each other!
We've been intimate for a long time (starting the second month of the relationship), but we only lost our virginity (we were both virgins before) very recently. Now, I feel like I ALWAYS want him, and I'm horny wayyy too much. When he comes over, both of us want each other so much that the first thing we end up doing is having sex. We still talk a lot, and we love each other's company as before, but I'm a little concerned that this new obsession with having sex with each other could change things badly? I don't want the relationship to turn into something based on sex.
Should we hold off on jumping straight into bed, even though both of us have an overwhelming urge to do it?
Oh, and we would go out on dates more if we weren't both so busy with college. It's only when summer break starts, that we can have more dates. So what should we do for now?

2007-05-19 09:37:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anita 3 in Singles & Dating

She always MSNS me her problems and when i block her she asks me at school and like almost cries and writes me notes and if i delete her she will keep adding me AND if i say somthing she tells her therapist and then i get a phone call from him. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-05-19 09:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mum, sister, 2 neighbours, close family members and a few close family friends have all had long term relationships and marriages that ended with them being deceived and feeling cheated, etc by their husbands/boyfriends and i fear that it will happen to me, like it's in my genes or something...

please help...i want to trust myself and other people...but i don't know if i ever will, because of this...

these people are so close to me, i wondered if it was a sign?

2007-05-19 09:34:40 · 25 answers · asked by KittenMcDuck 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married and had 8 months old baby girl, and now i felt that i am not inlove to my husband. i feel this since i was pregnant and i ignore this feelings to my husband but its not change, i dont want to be broken family and i am worried about my daughter. What i should do? do i need to tell to my husband this?

2007-05-19 09:34:25 · 6 answers · asked by conanlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce