She always MSNS me her problems and when i block her she asks me at school and like almost cries and writes me notes and if i delete her she will keep adding me AND if i say somthing she tells her therapist and then i get a phone call from him. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-05-19 09:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh god, i had a similar problem in high school. i remember standing outside talking in a group of ppl and this one weird girl was always standing with us, i thought she was friends with one of my friends...and it it turned out they all thought the same thing til one day we finally figured it out lol. well anyway somehow she latched onto me. at first i felt bad, so i was nice. she would always tell me crazy stories to get me to feel bad for her and follow me around and stuff. it got annoying really quick so i would always avoid her, i never returned her calls or anything but she didnt get it! finally she confronted me and asked me why i was avoiding her and i just flat out told her "i dont like you, stop following me around!" she was really upset...but she just didnt get it so i had no choice! next time she adds you, just tell her "im sorry but i dont want to be friends, leave me alone!" if you get a call from her therapist again tell him that your sorry but you dont want anyhting to do with this girl and he needs to stop calling you or you'll report him for harrasment, and hang up! good luck!
2007-05-19 09:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by massmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you dont want her in your life at all, but all you are doing is just avoiding her and what you NEED to do is confront her. She wont get the picture unless you are blunt with her. Tell her "i dont like you, i dont know how to fix your problems, and i would appreciate if you left me alone". Obviously she has mental health issues so you dont want to be cruel. But you know what i really think? I think that she is a lonely girl (not pshyco) that just needs someone to talk to and you could probably really help her just by listening to her.
2007-05-19 09:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's obsessive. Clingy. VERY jealous. Doesn't want you flirting with any1. Wants to know what you're up to every second of the day. I mean, you said it yourself in the question, "Never leaves you alone" That's the problem. & there WILL be a problem. Take if from a girls point of view & get out while you can. Goodluck(:
2016-03-19 08:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you wouldn't mind being her friend, but that she already has a therapist. So if she would like to talk about school, or go to a movie, or something like this, you'll be happy to spend time/talk with her. But otherwise, you are sorry, but you are not equipped to hanlde her problems, that is what she goes to the therapist for. Hope this helps!
2007-05-19 09:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying- "If you ignore something long enough, it usually goes away." She is in need of a lot of therapy, but it is not you that can solve her problems, leave her be, and she will get the hint
2007-05-19 09:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by emtleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the therapist that she is not your problem. Talk to the school staff to have her put in different classes. Get a restraining order.
2007-05-19 09:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your number
2007-05-19 09:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋