Ok my friend is soon to be sixteen and the guy who asked her out is 13. Should she still go out with him?
2007-05-19 09:40:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure, why the hell not. I think there will be many conflicts as far as maturity levels, but at least its legal.
2007-05-19 09:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do they have in common? Does she like him? A 13-year-old boy asked her out...to where? Usually, at that age, even a couple of years can make a huge difference. Can't they just be friends? I mean she's in High School and he is in Middle School, that doesn't sound odd to you? Once they are older, the age difference will not matter.
2007-05-19 09:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say let Ur friend go out with them and see how it goes I mean I have had a friend who did the same things but a 4 year difference and it worked out and they started to date. Age is a number its there maturity which is the big thing.
2007-05-19 09:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if she likes him. Unless there's like a ten year age gap or something, then age doesn't really matter. My sister-in-law has been dating her boyfriend for over three years and she's three years older than him. She is graduating from college and he's graduating from high school in the same month. But they are happy and her boyfriend is really mature for his age. If she likes the guy then she should go for it. With him being younger she can decide how the relationship should go, not him!
2007-05-19 09:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's an issue in one of the parties minds. Then it makes a difference, cos there will always be some guilt about it. Doesnt help in a relationship......But in reality age means absolutely nothing when it comes to the way 2 people think about each other!!!!!
2007-05-19 09:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am old fashion i believe that the guy should be older and bigger! But if your friend doesn't feel the same way then if she likes him why not go out with him? But sometimes 13 year olds can be very mature, and people may talk about her. But if all of that stuf doesn't bother her than let her go and have fun!..Hope i helped!
2007-05-19 09:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by jessica l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prolly not. I mean, the guy is 13! She's already 16 which means she likes to flirt & hang out with other guys. This guy @ 13 is prolly just interested in learning about sex so he can be cool & show off to his buddies.
2007-05-19 09:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Luvlee_Dreamer87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it okay a little werid but why would a sixteen year old girl want to out with a 13 i dont know but
2007-05-19 09:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ariellle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the state. In California it is illegal for a 16 year old to have sex with 13 year old. Just keep in mind the laws of your state and use precaution and DISCRETION! If there is love DISCRETION is more key.
2007-05-19 09:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let my 13 year old go out with a 16 old. Too many raging hormones.
2007-05-19 09:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a bar to be in love with each other, but strictly be away from having sexual relations until both of you reach legal age to do that.
2007-05-19 09:47:35 · answer #11 · answered by Ravi Lohia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋