Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

How would you know you weren't marrying a sibling, cousin, or other relative?

2007-05-19 14:07:02 · 11 answers · asked by Candidus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is driving me crazy. Every time my wife sees that I have called my sons mother she accuses me of wanting her back. I am not attracted to my son's mother at all. My wife is very pretty. What is wrong with this picture?

2007-05-19 14:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by mounthukeeguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kk, so this guy named john is like in love with me and he asked me out like two months ago. we usually talk and are like small friends and i was like surprised but i said no. now when we talk he like dosen't say much like he'll be like hey and just walk away. he is kinda popular, and hangs around this guy named tyler that i used to like a LOT, but i don't now. i said no because i never had a bf before and i would be embarassed in front of my parents because my dad says i'm not dating til i am 14 and i am 12. i'm like currently thinking of asking him out now to see what will happen. do you think this is a good idea because i might be VERY embarresed if he says no, and my dad might not approve. he'll probably get a girlfriend before i'm 14.

2007-05-19 13:58:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So what really does a girl imply when she asks "Do You Have A Girlfriend?"
A girl you don't really know well, is she interested in you or something completely different?

2007-05-19 13:56:40 · 26 answers · asked by scotty s 1 in Singles & Dating

but he was on probation for throwing a knife at me a few yrs ago in front of my kids. And also has a history of abuse. Should I be worried that there might be a judge out there crazy enough to give him custody of my son. Or should I not be worried at all?

2007-05-19 13:44:26 · 17 answers · asked by ~*Loveless*~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a neighbor whom I have a huge crush on.... He is always smiling, waving, when we see each other. I have seen him looking and then he turns his head.I have got to speak to him a couple times. First time he asked about the past... (hadnt spoken to him in like 6 years) Showing intrest??? I dont know!! But he always speaks with such respect and is very friendly. His personality is awesome. I really like him... And was wondering how you would tell him. Would you just go and say hey listen we need to talk... I really like you or what?????

2007-05-19 13:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by Snowflakes 2 in Singles & Dating

Several of my friends have their own checking/savings accounts. My husband and I have both of our names on each account and there are no "hidden" accounts.

What is the "norm"?
If you do not share an account, what is the reason?

2007-05-19 13:39:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fella (?) who I was engaged to for 5 mos. til I lost the ring, sold his home & bought one 900 mi. from here. His daughter & her husb; son & his wife & his only grandchild, 5 yr. old boy live there. He says he has decided he wants to be w/his family. He is 66 & lost his wife 2-1/2 yrs. ago to cancer. They had been married 39 yrs.& I don't think very happily. She was an alcholic & allowed him to do whatever he wanted w/o complaint. He is used to having things his way. He wanted to just be friends, (w/benefits) after I lost ring & later we had an unrelated fight, where I blew-up. He was very upset w/me about that. Said he can't handle hostility. He responds to my "I luv U", in kind, & says he wants me to come visit & doesn't no what future w/hold for us. Say's he hopes things w/work out for us. His kids been here helping him pack for past 4 days, he's called me once w/brief conv. He's leaving tomorrow. What are your thoughts on this?

2007-05-19 13:39:31 · 4 answers · asked by slippery slope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been having an online affair with a married man for 5months.Ive fallen head over heels in love with him, and he says he feels the same.We are going to be meeting soon.We've agreed to meet up as friends, but i want more and i know he does too.But i don't know if i should take it further than just friends when we meet for real.

2007-05-19 13:36:17 · 18 answers · asked by princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met her at a dance, and she seemed to like me. I got her number, and called her a day later. I left a voicemail. Should I wait till she calls back or keep trying? She told me to call her, so does that mean she's interested or is she playing games?

2007-05-19 13:34:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and My ex has just became friends again. Me and him talk almost everyday, either he calls me or i call him. I really want him to ask me back with him, but i dont know if thats going to ever happen.He is so confusing, he stils tells me all of his buisness, i have his password to his myspace. But he always find a excuse not to come see me. He tells me all the plans about our day we are going to have, but when i call to see if he still wants to go, has changed his mind and says no. He has dont this at least 5 times. But if one of his other friends call he'll go get them. When he calls and i dont pick up the phone, he keeps calling until he gets an answer. Then when i call and he dont pick up i just stop calling because i dont want him to think im desprate for him. He sometimes calls me for 5 min, and then has to call me back. He does that throughout that day, sometimes. He has a girlfriend, but he calls me all the time. Im just so confused, what is he trying to do?

2007-05-19 13:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by POOKIE 1 in Singles & Dating

inviting another man to watch us have sex? I am turned on by the thought of another man watching us, and possibly joining in. When should I bring it up?

2007-05-19 13:29:47 · 8 answers · asked by dooney 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

while they were married.

2007-05-19 13:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by an_angel_undercover_4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-19 13:20:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been seperated for 3 months. Just recently in the past week I decided that I wasn't happy with the guy I was seeing, and he the same thing happened with him and the girl he was dating.

I told him that I needed to talk to him, and we decided that we wanted to work things out and prevent a divorce because we still both loved one another.

Now, where do we start? I told him I think we should go to counseling, but what else can we do to help mend our relationship together?

2007-05-19 13:20:00 · 9 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

LOL! i feel sorry for my friend. he got turn down for a date by a waitress. LOL! shes not that good looking anyway. if i were him, i would say, hey you! you are just a waitress, not a megastar , so bring me some ketchup, honey.
i discovered that those girls who are in between beautiful and ugly, those who are not beautiful and not really ugly at all, are the pickiest girls. and those girls who are attractive are less pickier than those who are not. thats just 1 of the example.

2007-05-19 13:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by ۞_ʞɾ_۝ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 13:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by vicky 1 in Singles & Dating

My gal and I broke up over a month ago. Since I moved back home, she's called me several times to talk - about school, our families, etc. At first I was having a hard time with the breakup, but realized we ended it for a reason and accepted the fact that, if I wanted her in my life, it would have to be as friends. A few days ago, she calls me to tell me she's at the E.R. (she's had some health issues) - I went into my sympathy mode and told her if she needs anything let me know - I said i'd even fly out there. She said she'd call me back later that day to let me know how she was, but didn't call until two days later to tell me she was admitted and now may need surgery. Again, I told her i'd fly out there - first she said if it makes me feel better then flyout, but later changed her mind and said not to flyout to see her - she said it'd be uncomforatble. I'm confused, our relationship obviously didn't work, now she's rejecting my friendship. I think I've had it -what should i do?

2007-05-19 13:09:24 · 15 answers · asked by Trust Me 2 in Singles & Dating

if you hooked up with her how did it turn out. tell me about it . did it last was it a good decision. did you love her?

2007-05-19 13:08:46 · 3 answers · asked by fire and ice 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 49 he is divorced 7 years, from a 21 year marriage. He's a spirtiual man, very spiritual. I am as well...though we don't share the same religion, we have common beliefs. He doesn't have set priorities, but work seems to come first, and his hospice clients. He's pushed me aside for work at times, and that has gotten to me. Usually he's kind, sensitive, and understanding...he acknowledges my feelings and tries to make it up to me. It was just a month ago that he invited me to his Friend ( of 20 years) Mike's BBQ party, and there I met all his friends for the first time. Everything was fantastic...my boyfriend and I were both so happy, he was making plans on trying to get a house and sell his condo..he told me he was thinking about us going away for a weekend which was a surprize to me. But anyway, the next day as I was leaving on the bus to go home (45 mins away) I told him that we hit 10 months...he seemed "wowed" by it, and gave me a sincere squeeze (while in his arms)

2007-05-19 13:03:51 · 6 answers · asked by safireblu64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-19 12:58:38 · 16 answers · asked by cyndy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really have a thing for my friend brandon and he invitied me over to a party and he wasnt drinking as much as he usually does because he didnt want us to make out again but he was wanting me to take his shots wich im not a big drinker. but i called him yesterday and he said he was going to have another party and he said he didnt think i whould want to come because this chick ashley i cant stand was comeing. and i said oh. and he was like its her birthday but he said it all mad like

2007-05-19 12:56:48 · 1 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 12:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm trying to plan a wedding but am realizing that it is way more expensive than i realized. Does anyone have any tips on saving some $ while planning a nice wedding? Thanks!!!

2007-05-19 12:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by 0984 2 in Weddings

I'm just curious to know what the good guys actually go for. I'm only interested in a proper relationship with a good guy (christian preferably....lol) and I don't really know how to get one!

I've been told im pretty I just can't seem to attract the right guys! Please help I'd really appreciate it! x

2007-05-19 12:32:48 · 18 answers · asked by jesusfreakjen 2 in Singles & Dating

the "bases" in a relation, wht's ur definition of it? and wht is touchy touchy?

2007-05-19 12:29:56 · 14 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

if not, what name would you have liked to have been called?

2007-05-19 12:29:02 · 34 answers · asked by Lisa T 6 in Family

Somebody said that the guy i liked could have be redeeming himself when he asked another girl out 15 minutes after my friends (i know lame) asked if he liked me b/c he got really embarssed and walked away really fast. Could this be true? He has only had maybe 2 girlfreinds b4, And him and this girl lasted like 2 days b/c he was being a bad boyfriend and didnt care about her,

2007-05-19 12:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by everything_shes_not2 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school and I broke up with my exgirlfriend a few years ago. I went out with her for a year and some months and I regetted doing that after I did. Eventually, I got over it, but now I miss her again. She has a boyfriend and stuff now, and they've been going out for a year I think and I don't think they'll break up. It upsets me that I can't get over her, because she keeps talking to me and flirting with me and stuff, and I know she still cares about me a little bit. What do you think?

2007-05-19 12:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by grassheroauca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm extremely conservative about socializing with people. I rarely start conversations, and when I do, it's because it's practically necessary. When people try to talk to me, often I answer them with very brief responses and get the conversation over with, or may straight up ignore them. There are a few people that I can talk to regularly, but either because I've known them from early childhood, or because they were that much more persistant about talking to me and somehow evasive of my judgemental "who is this idiot speaking to me?" attitude.

I'm 18, and after a few relationships I've become indignant to a lot of things about more extroverted individuals. I miss the feeling there was to loving someone and being loved, and I can't shake the idea of that one fictitious girl as a life-long intimate partner. But I'm not looking forward to the stress of always aiming to please, or much else of the experiences I've been in before. I've been selective about who I talk to as it is, but who

2007-05-19 12:23:57 · 16 answers · asked by vrailesk 1 in Singles & Dating