2007-05-19 13:20:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, many many girls are like this. I think it's some kind of insecurity thing. Try to build more faith in yourself. If he didn't love/like you, he wouldn't be with you, he'd be with the other girl. Also, have more faith in him.
2007-05-19 13:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your boyfriend a flirt, does he have a wondering eye? then you have reason to be jealous. He needs to work on making you secure in the relationship. If he makes you feel this way, it is his fault. When feeling are involved, and one truly cares for another, they flirt. It not good for the heart or the mind. I think you need to have an heart to heart talk with your man. Let him know you dont like how he reacts around other females, his actions makes it seems like he likes them a little more than he should. This behaviour makes you feel jealous. Be real with him, honest. If not this will continue on, and will break your heart. Why go with this pain, when you can get it resolved.
Best to you..
2007-05-19 20:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by ladymaryum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question - you're jealous because you think he likes her. But, the fact that he's with you and he hasn't broken up with you for her should count for something. Nothing drives a wedge in between people faster than if one of them is constantly jealous and insecure. However, if you really feel your boyfriend is interested in this girl, be upfront and ask him about it.
2007-05-19 21:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jane D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, you are
1. nuts
or 2. you are afraid to lose him and that you don't trust him. If you don't just him, then why be with him? Make sure of yourself that jealously does not get in the way, otherwise you'll be doing the very thing you don't want to lose trust from him and you won't trust him. The relationship will be over as fast as it began.
3. or he is the wondering type, the one that always looks for a new girl. Make sure you set him rules. otherwise he will roam free.
2007-05-19 20:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you a reason to doubt his commitment to you? I would be careful with how you show your feelings of jealousy. You could do the opposit of what you want and run him off. I would however sit him down and talk to him. Say I know that this is a problem but I am trying to deal with it. This way he knows where you are coming from and maybe he can help you deal with this.
Good luck!
2007-05-19 20:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by ravenrose23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your self conscious. Jealousy gets you no where. You need to work on some things with yourself and the trust you have with the two of you. It's okay for him to think others girls are beautiful/hot... its natural but that doesnt mean he wants to take them home. Work on yourself and things will be so much better in life.
2007-05-19 20:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by coffeejitterzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just you. I am was like that too. Every girl my boyfriend talked to I was soo jealous, but as much as I hated it I realized that I didnt trust him. You have to trust him that he wouldn't leave you or flirt with her. You have guy friends right? So can't he have girlfriends? Look at it like that. It may be easier.
2007-05-19 20:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about it. I have had this problem before too and the best thing to is to talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him how you feel. Dont let it go on too long because then things can just get worse.
2007-05-19 20:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by littlebic87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple.
You don't want him to cheat on you because he's yours and that's totally respectable. I would do the same thing.
I'm thinking that she might like him, but he thinks they're just good friends.
It's totally normal to feel that way, but don't let it get to you.
2007-05-19 20:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by TehPuffinFTW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a flirt - my boyfriend is, too - but you have to learn that he is just joking around most of the time. As long as he remains faithful, there is nothing to worry about. :]
2007-05-19 20:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Slow x Cheetah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋