I'm in high school and I broke up with my exgirlfriend a few years ago. I went out with her for a year and some months and I regetted doing that after I did. Eventually, I got over it, but now I miss her again. She has a boyfriend and stuff now, and they've been going out for a year I think and I don't think they'll break up. It upsets me that I can't get over her, because she keeps talking to me and flirting with me and stuff, and I know she still cares about me a little bit. What do you think?
2007-05-19 12:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by grassheroauca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh yeah, I've had 3 girlfriends since her, so it's not like I haven't been trying to be over her and find someone else.
2007-05-19 13:37:52 · update #1
MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT AND TELL HER TO STOP LEADING U ON IF SHE WANTS U SHE WANTS U SHE WANTS ,IF SHE DONT SHEDONT !!!! HOLLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-19 12:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by landos_wifey1423 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Hope you listen to all I have to say. In high school, you have girlfriends...she has boyfriends. Odd are, she will break-up with her boyfriend eventually. In other words, she won't marry him. She keeps talking to you because you have common interests, classes in common, and friends in common. She flirts with you because she can. You say she has a boyfriend you're sure she's not going to dump. She's not flirting to find a new bf. She likes the attention of boys being attracted to her, and it's safe with you. I was married to a girl right out of high school. We were together for over two years. Got married, but only lasted a few months before divorce. I married again. She just divorced her 4th husband. I still love her, I'm sure she still loves me, we still talk, we still flirt. Nothing could become of us, because we went our different ways, but because of our history together, it turned into what you might call a "love hate" friendship. You will love each other when neither are in a relationship, but hate each other when one is in a relationship.You will Love again. Maybe even to some one BETTER than your ex. ;)
2007-05-19 13:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by grasshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grashac... you are human. You know that you can't have her, so you want her (because you are human). You will get over her when you date other women. so do that...date other women. There are millions of women in the world and many more beautiful and more wonderful than her. You only want her because, she is dating someone else and you are not. Say you do get back together, this desire will fade away and you will remember why you dumped her in the first place. Start talking to other girls, get there phone number nad meet them for tea and stimulating coversation. YOU DON'T WANT YOUR EXGIRLFRIEND BACK (and quit calling her that!)
2007-05-19 12:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by rthornton001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. I think you should tell her your feelings and tell her you regret breaking up with her when you did and you want to get together. She could simply break up with her boyfriend if she still has feelings for you, since she flirts with you and stuff. But she might still like her boyfriend for going out so long, but who knows? Best luck! <3
2007-05-19 12:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sounds of it you have never really had to deal with her not being there, and therefore haven't had the time to "get over her" by being on your own.
Maybe you should hold back from seeing her for a bit and give yourself "You" time, maybe talk to some other people not connected to her.
As for her flirting with you, well that sort of thing dose tend to go both way's, and if you want it to stop, either tell her (which should make her back of sharpish) or stop (appearing) to let it effect you.
2007-05-19 12:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Curiouskitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes really serious about seeing you she wouldn't have a boyfriend. so now if you get back with her, will she flirt with her now boyfriend behind your back? I would leave her alone until she is single again and you know that for sure.
2007-05-19 12:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you had your chance and you blew it now you decided to change your mind well tough, live with who you are because most times there are no second chances.
2007-05-19 12:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell hewr up front ! and if she is flirting wiht you she wants you back 2 ! god luck
2007-05-19 12:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just trying to be mean as if to say "look what you gave up" and "you cant have it back"
2007-05-19 12:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Loved 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋