What do good guys look for in a girl?

Question

I'm just curious to know what the good guys actually go for. I'm only interested in a proper relationship with a good guy (christian preferably....lol) and I don't really know how to get one!

I've been told im pretty I just can't seem to attract the right guys! Please help I'd really appreciate it! x

Answer 1

sweet, nice, funny, smart, non-cheater, there r many things a good guy will look 4 in a girl

Answer 2

First you have to have something about yourself that would make a guy attracted to you, maybe you have really nice eyes or cute smile, nice figure, that seems shallow but you have to be attractive in order for someone to be attracted to you, after that you got to have the confidence, then you gotta have some brains, looking good will only get you so far, if you can't carry on a convo for very long that is a big turn off. That should get you started once yoyu find someone then just be yourself and the rest will come. That's HOT!!!!!

Answer 3

I look for the personality as 85% and the outside 15%. You aren't finding the right guys because your getting guys who just like your body. Those guys are usually the wrong guys. To get the right guy you should make yourself a bit ugly so you won't attract any guys for your outside. But instead the inside which the you will most likely attract the right guys.

Answer 4

well it seems for me that i can't find the right girl, i prefer the christian type but there aren't many that are cute. I don't really see myself putting up with a girl who's wild and loose with hers so i don't know. aj17sc im me..I"m starting to give up on love because these women are expecting me to be worldly in my actions and involvement with them. When I tell them NO in a nice way they think i'm not normal because everyone else is doing these things and i choose not to. I don't know what to do anymore. just sit and wait i guess or one day buy a house and a cat.. any ideas?

Answer 5

well im 15 and christian u can go out with me lol jk.

Most attraction at first is by looks. but like if u become friends and they get to know ur personality attraction can just happen.

Answer 6

the caring stuff, the attention, the x factor, the sex appeal, being charming, and would just put you in a spell for a long long time.

Oh you must smell good too!

Make sure there is no hair in your underarms or legs.. lolz Also, take away the churchy look.. just be yourself.

Answer 7

Confidence, integrity, self-control, and a positive attitude.

Last thing anybody wants is a needy, clingy, insecure lying drug addict gambler who doesn't know how to clean up after themselves and goes around whining about how life isn't fair all the time.

It ain't rocket science.

Answer 8

Personally I go for girls that:
A) I can hold a good conversation with
B) Listen to me when I need them to, yet not constantly quiz me
C) Can laugh
D) Are not a completely open book
E) Intelligent
F) Good looking is always a plus ;-)

Don't be afraid to talk to a guy you like, and don't act differantly than usual
Good Luck!

Answer 9

try a church most Christians hang around there on a Sunday and a good guy would be the one that's right for you

Answer 10

I like a girl who has her own interests. It can be anything--her sports, her studies...anything but show biz actually. I like her to enjoy life and be enthusiastic about living life, I really value kindness --that means so much to me--if she is kind to her brothers and sisters, her parents, and especially to animals. I like her to be intelligent and confident.