Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

i want to ask this really beautiful girl out (we're both sophmores in high school-i'm 15, she's 16) and i want to be as attractive as possible (it's complicated but she might have liked me last year because of my smarts but i haven't talked to her in a year). and do i sound attractive (personality wise, i don't think looks r that much of an issue here)? if ur going 2 say that i'm 2 young to have a gf then don't answer.

i have okay looks (asian, black hair)
height: 5' 6"
very mature
makes money on ebay- $25-100/month
golf team- very busy during golf season (February - May)
smart (4.0 GPA, taking a college class next year)
dedicated and always tries my best
courteous
honest
shy-never had gf
good with children- teach golf 2 little kids on Fridays.
not strong but not weak
caring/friendly
neither popular or unpopular
not cocky but not insecure
doesn't show much emotion
would take the relationship seriously and wants a serious relationship, not a fling
respects the ladies

2007-05-19 15:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is attractie, well not a Bradd Pitt but not Ugly either, he has a good personality, has respect for women, has a humour, is not dumb, wud never cheat on a women but cant seem to find anyone, he dotn go clubs or anyting but does go to few places where people interact but still No luck we just dont get it, the girls we see seem to be into to bad boys, wanna be gangtsers, is this just a one off is is really women are changing, its just so weird.

2007-05-19 15:19:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mIL is a nightmare. she DID NOT send me a mother's day card..i am a first time mother and we sent her one from all of us. she LIED to me and told me she SENT it on Mon, it got back to her on Wed bec of the postage (which we all know doesnt start until Friday) and oh no..never received it....my husband is pissed off from this, as well as embarraassed by her actions. when he confronted her, she screamed at him that she DID send it and that al WE want are gifts.....she is a liar,,,,,,,my husband TRIES to talk to her, but she yells at him as if he were 16 years old again (he is 33) and she has also screamed at me...we have been together for 4 years, married for 2 and have a 1 year old son...we are adults, as well as parents and should be treated as such...any suggestoins???
thanks

2007-05-19 15:18:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 34, had 2 miscarriages and 1 unsuccessful Invitro (IVF). i love kids and have been helping my siblings in raising thier kids fiancially. I have a step son who doesnt live with us. I am happily married to a wonderful man close to 5 yrs. now.
We have our own assisted living facility and financially able to have kids. The only missing right now in completing our family is a baby. We are still trying to have our own but is willing to adopt a baby. We are Christians, my husband white and i'm an asian (filipino). Agency process takes so long, i know out there somebody might need a good family to give her baby away. I want to take the chance to find her here. thanks!

2007-05-19 15:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by recain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help..I took some photos of me umm not so clothed will my parents see them since they pay the bill? Its with Verizon

2007-05-19 15:14:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who am I?

2007-05-19 15:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ballbuster 1 in Family

okay. so i have never talked to this guy, i'm a freshman, he's a sophmore. he just started randomly talking to me. and i guess he likes me now. he's been known to hook up with a lot of girls, and has had one girlfriend in the past, where he broke up with her because it was boring to him.
is he actually interested in me, or is he just lookin' fo some. because if he's just looking for something to mess around with that's not gonna happen.

2007-05-19 15:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My good friend is going to London, and I am giving him a card. Do you have any ideas about what to say?

2007-05-19 15:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Manoj P 3 in Friends

im in the flint saginaw area in michigan....20 years old....6'2'' 195lbs...dark blonde blue eyes....athletic.....loves to do everything and anything....so whose willing to go on a date??

2007-05-19 15:06:16 · 15 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 15:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by maybe this will help-Harvey Milk 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me that he was sorry and that he was a dick and that he shouldnt of done it...but i have no clue what to do what if he doesnt tell me when he does it the next time?Help me please.

2007-05-19 15:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So today was the car wash for our school. I went for the whole day and so did one of my friends (girl) that I don't talk to anymore cuz we kept on fighting. We used to be closest friends but that has changed. I didn't talk to her all day and worked as far away as possible from her. I saw from the corner of my eye that she kept on glancing at me. Later, when we were done, all of the kids went out to dinner. I said I didn't want to go since she didn't want me there. She tried to console me saying she did, but I told her she didn't. She said "you know, I really dont." and stormed away. I went anyway and at dinner she kept on laughing at my jokes although I did not look at her one bit. One of my other friends asked her privately if she said she didnt want me to come and she denies what she said completely. So what should I do?

2007-05-19 14:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by DarkNoel 3 in Friends

2007-05-19 14:57:29 · 6 answers · asked by daviniadiva 1 in Family

Anyone else out there trying to not become another statistic? My husband and I have been through alot in our 12 years of marriage. He's come out of an addiction, and I am recovering from anger issues. We are going to renew our vows this summer as a way of saying we love eachother, and will be committed to eachother until the day the Lord takes us home, still. I just wanted to know how many other married couples out there are going to choose to love and stay together no matter what and beat becoming just another statistic. Anyone have a great encouraging story to share about enduring and choosing to love eachother through it all?

2007-05-19 14:57:08 · 24 answers · asked by dixi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The only options to answer are: Single, Married, Divorced, Widowed, and Separated. But what if I'm in a relationship, neither married nor single? Should I mark the box for Single anyways?

2007-05-19 14:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had sex with my boyfriend and i dont want to anymore, but when ever he asks me and i say no he gets mad and says "well the hardest part is done, why wont you. we have done this before!" how can i stop this?!

2007-05-19 14:51:01 · 23 answers · asked by Marie 5 in Friends

2007-05-19 14:50:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i looked after my daughter cause i love her it hurt her bad mum dint want her,i looked after girl and helped her when she left home to start her own life, i got over it all and started going out with groups of friends but it was allways couples and at the end of the nite ur on your own people would say ur a gud looking friendly guy we dont no why ur on your own some one will come along but no one did only some one who used me big time and messed me up ithink your lifes maped out 4 u and some people r not lucky 2 meet some one im lonley and yes depressed now you lose heart in the end iwanted so bad to have some one to look after and love but it didnt happen if u have a best friend who loves yer look after them, im sorry 4 writeing all this

2007-05-19 14:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so i have been best friends with this girl sense she was born cause our moms are best freinds but my friends is doing some really bad stuff like smoking drinkin and other really bad things and she is only 14 my mom says i cant hang out with her any more because of these things and that im 16 and i agree because i dont want to start doing those things how do i tell my friend this i dont want her to be sad or mad at me and i am her only friend i dont know what to do help! i have tried to help her stop and get help but she wont i really need help

2007-05-19 14:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm obviously not the only one that experiences depression and has had suicidal thoughts, but it seems like it's so common these days that people don't care. When I told my family, friends, and even a doctor about my cutting tendencies and thoughts I was ignored, shunned, and told that I should feel guilty for how I felt and how I'm making them feel. I want to be a better person and have tried to stop but I need something that can help me. I want to here from people that may have or are experiencing the same things I am. Am I selfish for having thoughts of suicide?

2007-05-19 14:40:26 · 25 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

If i cant wait a minute let alone 20 minutes, and she wont get out, what do i do

2007-05-19 14:31:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf want me to visit her when her husband goes to iraq He has know knowledge that she talks to me or that where planning this. I want to see her but if where caught it would look
like a love affair. he believe that me and her were together we have been but by accident & alchola. What should I do i want to be both of there friends I have no problem with him why do I have to be caught inbetween. But i also get this feeling that she might try to have sex with me and I won't want to hurt her feeling because iv'e know her 9 years but what if we do get drunk again or something? What is the best thing to do in this situation. She gets so mad at me if I bring him up or tell her we problay should not I suspect he may know or what if he finds out. he really does not like me from what she tells me I am concern that if something goes wrong I don't want to be the cause of there marriage to fail. But I'm sick of hiding are Friendship.

2007-05-19 14:27:39 · 1 answers · asked by kay b 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband complains that i am not spontaneous anymore and that i never fix up for him. well guess what. I tried to do that just today... I went shopping for several hours just trying to find the right things to look pretty(FOR HIM) and I come home and try to show him what i got, and guess what he says...nothing, just please get out of the way of the t.v.!!!! I am so angry right now. people say that sometrimes relationships dont work out because people dont give it thier all, well Im giving more than i can afford!!! can anybody relate to what im saying?

2007-05-19 14:26:01 · 20 answers · asked by Alicia M 2 in Singles & Dating

Been getting tired of my wife lately, of 6 years, just a straight nag, much like most women ;)

Well tomorrow is her birthday and I thought it'd be a great gift to watch a movie with her. Except the movie will be me and her best friend having the wildest sex we recorded. This is her best friend of 24 years, by the way. But hey, she does it better so who cares?

Anyway.. is this a good gift or what? This is not fake either. I am seriously tired of her

2007-05-19 14:22:56 · 11 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have not come up with a theme for our wedding yet. My husband to be is in the Army and of course that is not the theme for our wedding; however I would like to incorporate it into our wedding in some very unique ways. Could someone help me please. Thanks In Advance for not giving any rude answers:).

2007-05-19 14:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by **Q.M.C.** 2 in Weddings

I know this may not be in the right category, but I thought other parents could help. I'm having a garage sale in a week and I have no idea how to price things. I have only ever gone to a couple garage sales so I don't really have an idea on how to set my prices. I'll just be selling some of the kids clothes, a lot of baby girl outfits only worn once or twice. What do you ask for things like that? I know not to set prices too high, but how high is too high? Any suggestions would be really appreciated, thanks.

2007-05-19 14:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-19 14:13:15 · 21 answers · asked by shopping rocks 101 1 in Friends

If you went over to sit with a few girls, and a girl that you usually talk to has her feet in a chair and you put your feet in the same chair, and then stare at her for a few minutes. What would be going through your mind?

2007-05-19 14:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-19 14:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Cool chick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Silence is a friend who will never betray.

2007-05-19 14:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by nylewis08 2 in Friends