So today was the car wash for our school. I went for the whole day and so did one of my friends (girl) that I don't talk to anymore cuz we kept on fighting. We used to be closest friends but that has changed. I didn't talk to her all day and worked as far away as possible from her. I saw from the corner of my eye that she kept on glancing at me. Later, when we were done, all of the kids went out to dinner. I said I didn't want to go since she didn't want me there. She tried to console me saying she did, but I told her she didn't. She said "you know, I really dont." and stormed away. I went anyway and at dinner she kept on laughing at my jokes although I did not look at her one bit. One of my other friends asked her privately if she said she didnt want me to come and she denies what she said completely. So what should I do?
2007-05-19 14:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by DarkNoel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seems to me that you both still like each other and you are both just being difficult. If she really didn't want you there and you are not on speaking terms, then she would have let you know.
I don't fully understand the nature of your realtionship, but I think you just have conflicting personalities but like each other. Put it aside, and be friends, she's not the only one being difficult; you should have said you were going to dinner whether she wanted you to or not at FIRST, and not waited for her to say she didn't want you to go. Also, she said that because you said she didn't want you to go. People do what you say they will when you try to tell them how THEY feel, just to make you angry.
I hope I helped you.
2007-05-19 15:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, it's a mystery as to why she was acting the way she was. You should just let things cool off for a few days (or weeks). Don't talk to her, but if she approaches you, don't act mad. Go with the flow, and see what happens. I'm sure that, in time, you'll find out what her true intentions were.
2007-05-19 15:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both were playing childish games. Of course girls are confusing to you because you don't have a grasp of you own self in dealing with emotional situations. If one of you were mature in dealing with each other this problem would have been handled quickly and without much hurt feelings.
I have to tell you this but women are very predictable.
2007-05-19 15:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you two need to sit and have a serious conversation.
From what you wrote, and the way you wrote it, I think there are a lot more feelings between the two of you than either want to admit.
So what if you fight? Lots of great relationships are one long series of arguments that end with wonderful sessions of making-up.
Don't be surprised if a romance develops between you.
Good luck in making peace with your friend.
Doc
2007-05-19 15:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh yea, she is throwing significant mixed indicators. you don't want to get entangled with a woman that's that risky. in case you rather like her, then sit her down and immediately up tell her. If thats too nerve-wrecking, e mail or textual content her. yet you should be immediately ahead about it. If its only a weigh down style ingredient, flow on to a woman thats better sturdy and is well-known with what she rather needs. sturdy success both way! =]
2016-11-04 12:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by bason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that both of u still have intrest in each other but still u need to get along better - ask ur self what was not working in this relation before???!! any u will find away to work it better this time.
open a new chapter with her & try to be friends again
good luck
2007-05-20 02:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Some Balls And Talk To Her
2007-05-19 15:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Cut out the mind and power games, and just be friendly, real and honest with this girl.
Things will work out better that way.
2007-05-19 15:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather she wanted you to come or not, was your choice to go or not. Was she footin the bill for you to eat? If not, fugg her and I hope that you had a good time with everyone else. That's not confusion when it sounds more like what you allow.
2007-05-19 15:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by nika 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her...!! Do YOU like her? I think SHE likes YOU and wants to be close to you again. Well, that's only if it's okay with you, because if you're not going to like her back, this relationship won't work.
I think boys are totally confusing. Hehehe.
2007-05-19 15:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋