2007-05-19 15:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by maybe this will help-Harvey Milk 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your husband should love you and respect you, not disrespect you.
2007-05-19 15:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you have correctly identified his behaviour as racist it is because he is a racist and a confused one at that. Racist usually don't marry the very people they are racist towards. On the off chance that you have not correctly identified his behaviour consider marriage counseling (for both or you by yourself if he won't go) to figure out why you feel he's being racist towards you and where you go from there. Remember you both took a huge leap of faith in making a commitment to each other so it's worth making an effort to save it if you can figure out a way. Either way it's a win win. If you can't figure out a way to get past the racism (if that's what it is) then you move on to the rest of your life without it. If it isn't what you think it is you move on to a happier relationship with the man you love. Good luck.
2007-05-19 15:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by hsgcoun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This lacks any kind of helpful information WHATSOEVER but my guess is that your husband is being racist towards you because he's racist???
2007-05-19 15:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how the hell should we know if that's all the info you're providing?
Secondly, even if he is being racist to you for whatever reason, do you really think a bunch of people online would be able to explain his behavior to you? I think you probably know him a tad bit better than we do...
2007-05-19 15:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jane D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More info-that's not a question you can just leave people hanging on. Why do you say he's being racist?
2007-05-19 15:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he being racist? You didn't really give us any information. But I would assume it's because he's a jerk.
2007-05-19 15:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is he being racist to get answers you must ask the right question.
2007-05-19 16:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The devil's in the details. Give more information.
2007-05-19 15:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Joker 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he knows thats a sore spot with you and he knows it will hurt you the most.. when arguing with your spouse we tend to know the buttons to push to get the best reaction, and we dont always mean it, its just what we know will work fast quick and to the point..
2007-05-19 15:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by m2horner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what's going on. Perhaps you need to be communicating with him.
2007-05-19 16:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋