Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

You see I have a crush and a couple of years ago I wrote her a love letter and she ripped it and threw it in the sewer am I wrong to still like her?

2007-05-19 09:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay people, so I really like this guy, not giving away any names, but he's say... FOUR YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! Strange thing is, he may like me back too. I know after the age of 18, it doesn't really matter, but seeings how both me and him are younger than 18, does it matter?? Please people, I need your help.

2007-05-19 09:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by DeziRAWR! 1 in Friends

I'm a Senior in High School, and I'm 18. He's 25 and we've been friends for 3 years. I first realized I was in love with him at the beginning of this year, and I know it's not lust because I dont have that dirty feeling when I look at him. But being around him makes me a complete pushover, and I'd do anything for him.
He flirts with me all the time, too, so I think there's a chance he might like me back. But I don't want him to lose his job. It's only his first year, and it worries me constantly.
Should I tell him how I feel? If so, when? I'm leaving in August, but I graduate in 8 days. We have a concert tomorrow, too, so. . . help me, please!

2007-05-19 09:29:45 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and if one is Indian and one is English

2007-05-19 09:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I befriended the greatest friend whom i called my best friend. The first time we met he was really sweet, caring, thoughtful, sensitive, humorous, everything that a girl could ever dream of. However, just 4 months ago he took a course, n it seems to be getting the best of him, he doesn't seem to be the same person i once knew. He is cold, insensitive, a pathological liar, always giving excuses, doesn't speak as much, doesn't have a sense of humor or make jokes. I am really furious at this pt n don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to end our friendship, but it seems like he's pushing me away every chance he gets n i am sick of it, i want the old friend back. What do you suggest i do, besides ending the frienship?????? I feel like banging my head on the wall. Thank you in advance.

2007-05-19 09:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by Lovemylifefriendsfamily 4 in Friends

When a man finds out a woman is a virgin... the attraction that was once felt seems to die quickly. Why is that?

2007-05-19 09:28:14 · 20 answers · asked by Cambrianna S 4 in Singles & Dating

when a girl looks into your eyes and she keep on looking do you think there is something there, I was in love with this woman before and she keep on looking into my eyes

2007-05-19 09:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by abcdegh 1 in Friends

My little brother and I moved with my Aunt three years ago. He is a 14 year old pain. He doesn't listen to her at all. He talks back and says really mean things. She can do nothing. No punishment works. She's 65 so it's hard for her. The stress is too much. What should she do?

2007-05-19 09:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by luv2sing 1 in Family

One of my really good guys friends gave me drugs and i told him that they are'nt good for him and stuff, he told me i was stupid. He is one of my best friends and i really like him, as a friend. So i dicided to do something about it and told him i would tell the school counseller if he kept it up, even though i dont have enough guts to. He got so angry at me it wasnt even funny. now he isnt talking to me. we have been friends for a really long time. what should i do?

2007-05-19 09:26:38 · 5 answers · asked by brittney n 2 in Friends

2007-05-19 09:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by sandie2uk 2 in Family

Where do I put my hands, how should I approach him etc?
Any details useful.

2007-05-19 09:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by Nemo//<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on aim the other night and talking to this really cute guy. He asked me out, but he said i was totaly cute, but was really flat-chested. (which i am, I have NO boobs) But anyway....should i still go out with him? or is it normal for his age(12) here is are convo: (im lexi_girl543 lol)
lexi_girl543: hry
lexi_girl543: hey*
bretoff2: hey, whts up?
lexi_girl543: nm jc u?
bretoff2: yea same, i have a question
bretoff2: kinda important
lexi_girl543: yes...???
bretoff2: Do you want to go out with me?
bretoff2: your so cute, ur flatchested, but ur cute, athletic and nice.
lexi_girl543: ummmmmm
lexi_girl543 is offline.

2007-05-19 09:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wife, 27, begins affair with husband's friend (both friend & husband are 33) of over 20 years while still living at home and then moves into her own apartment. Affair is very serious, lasts almost 6 months. Completely emotional, physical, etc. Wife is ready to leave husband for friend. Then 5 weeks ago, at the 11th hour decides to go back to husband and try to save the marriage. Both seem "sincere" about trying to fix this. She's in counseling, he's in counseling, but they're not in counseling together yet.Tells husband of affair but makes up a fake person that she had affair with. Doesn't want husband to know it's his friend. Family and her friends are willing to go along with cover-up. They're spending lots of time together, but he has stopped talking to his friends and she still talks to the friend twice a week on the phone. I have 2 questions.....
1. Will the marriage survive?
2. Will he find out who it really is, even if he's not actively pursuing it.

2007-05-19 09:23:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a lot of burdens on me and I don't know what to do about any of them. First off I am 23 and I am homeless. I stay at a homeless shelter and havent spent a night outside of it since December. I have lost contact with my parents because my mother disowns me and I owe my father a lot of money. I have no job because I am too stupid to realize I can't make money playing online poker no matter how much I love to play or practice or how good I am. I own a laptop which is the only thing I have left of my old life. I have never had a girlfriend. Most of my old friends are ashamed of being around me because of the fact that I have been homeless since August. I don't drink or smoke. And I think about suicide all the time but would never have the guts to do it. I am a coward in many lights. I am not the least bit attractive. Every girl I have ever asked to date usually gives me an awkward response. My only friend (whos female and in love with someone else) tries hard, but doesnt get me..

2007-05-19 09:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by hazen ben soba 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know why us girls love ITALIAN men and why is it hard to get over them and how do we get over them?

2007-05-19 09:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 09:19:47 · 25 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for 4 years and we have 2 wonderful kids together our son is 2 years old and our daughter is 8 months old. Things are really bad between us and I know it is better for both me and the kids if him and I weren't together. I still Love him but it is only because him and I have children together. I am not sure how to approach him about this with out him getting really mad and flipping out. I am scared of what he would do. I am also a young mom to I am only going to be 21 in July. Any suggestion or even someone that would be willing to talk would be really good you can reach me on yahoo messanger tigger_winnie_0406@yahoo.ca

Thank you.

2007-05-19 09:18:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Boy: I saw her today.

Girl: I saw him today.

Boy: It seems like it's been forever.

Girl: I wonder if he still cares.

Boy: She looks better than before.

Girl: I couldn't stop staring at him.

Boy: I asked how things were going.

Girl: I asked about his new girlfriend.

Boy: I'd pick her over any girl I'm with.

Girl: He's probably really happy now.

Boy: I can't even look at her without crying.

Girl: He couldn't even look at me.

Boy: I told her I miss her.

Girl: He didn't mean it.

Boy: I meant it.

Girl: He doesn't mean it.

Boy: I love her.

Girl: He loves his new girlfriend.

Boy: I held her for the last time.

Girl: He gave me a friendly hug.

Boy: And then I went home and cried.

Girl: And then I went home and cried.


Boy: I lost her...




Girl: I love him....

2007-05-19 09:16:47 · 13 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have a boyfriend and he says that I'm too clingy. We hang out, text, and call all the time. We even have all our classes in school together! I'm scared that if I don't call or text him he'll think that I don't want to be with him anymore...but if I DO call or text him..he'll think I'm annoying and clingy. I don't get it...what am i supposed to do? I don't want to lose him. Please help!!

2007-05-19 09:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well here is the deal okay my friend recently snuck into her moms car and stole a ciggarette and she is only twelve she told us she will never do it again but we think she might should we tell her mom even if her mom wont care

2007-05-19 09:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by zoey alexander 2 in Friends

Guys what do you think?
Girlies same to you
He's kinda HOT
But were kinda friends

2007-05-19 09:15:01 · 7 answers · asked by Rizzle Razzle :) 1 in Friends

2007-05-19 09:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Princesita 6 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I'm good friends with, and he's in all of my classes at school. Ive liked him a few times, and we dated for a week. While we were dating, we barely talked, so we decided it was pointless. I like him again. Well, some of the time, he's really nice and compliments me, and we laugh a lot together. he says things like "you have nice legs, you smell really good." I always wonder if he likes me. Other times, he can be pretty annoying. The other day, he moved each of his feet around mine (doesn't make sense) and didn't move them for a while. Whenever he gets near me he doesn't move, and does other suggestive things.
Also, the other day I kept telling him to go to the movies with me and some friends and he told me to do something kinda vulgar, "[insert vulgar action here], and I'll go." and I said okay as a joke, and he was like "Really?! Alright!" I know it may seem just like, a dirty joke, but he doesn't say those kinds often.
I just want to know if he likes me too.

2007-05-19 09:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by eightlegzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 50's as is my wife.

Whenever my wife goes out of town, the girl ( 23-25 yrs old) next door, comes over a lot to ask questions or to borrow things. All these questions are about how to fix something at her house.

When my wife is home, she doesn't come over or really acknowledge that my wife or I exist. I've asked my wife about it, but she say's the girls a bit off. My wife say's she's tried to talk to her before, but that she brushed her questions away.

Does this sound weird or what? Do you think I have a potential pyscho living next to us? What would you do, if anything?

2007-05-19 09:11:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok we had an assembly and my friends and i decided that we wanted to sit at the top of the bleachers. so then i was about to sit near my guy friend that my friend likes. then my friend pushed me and we were at the TOP of the bleachers and i alomost fell down them. it seems like everytime my guy friend and i hang out he thinks that we are gonna start making out. me and my guy friend are better friends than him and her are so i guess she is like really jealous. she also is "accidentally" hitting me everday at school. should i tell her i dont want to be friends with her anymore cuz of what she does to me?
P.S.-when she almost made me fall down the bleachers i had to sit by my other friend cuz i was about to push her down the bleachers if i had sat by her any longer

2007-05-19 09:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by PandA 3 in Friends

(assigned parking) Then he told the office about their pets in case they hadn't paid up (Deposit & monthly rent) Now I'm scared of being confronted by these people. My husband is convinced he was right. I'm not. I don't want to stir the pot but I don't want to be confronted. What should I do?

2007-05-19 09:10:27 · 21 answers · asked by hobo 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im in junior highschool and i dated a boy one grade older than me for about 3 months, then we broke up. its been 4 months since the break up and just a few days ago hes been writting me notes non stop. saying that he misses me, and he thinks we should go to the movies sometime. but im worried because when we used to go to the movies we would always make out, so im thinking all he really wants is just a make out buddy because he is lonely right now? im not sure?




anyways last night i went to a school banquet and looked stunning. i got all dressed up because i knew he would be there and i really like him. i was expecting him to notice me. he didnt. he didnt notice me at all. he didnt even talk to me or anything. it was so confusing. i mean there were guys there that told me i looked great. one guy even asked me to dance.



so whats going on? is he just playing games? was he just nervous? does he actually like me or not? HELP.

2007-05-19 09:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by angle1 1 in Singles & Dating

here is the thing i have to chose between 2 guys and i hate the feeling of guilt...
one who like me and one who loves me but i like the one who likes me more. the one who loves me is so pushy and it annoys me sometimes but is it true that it is better to be loved than to love?
help me plz!!
i like the one who likes me very much we aren't still in the love zone though......

2007-05-19 09:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Singles & Dating

is it also true to say that women think women are as beautiful (if not more) than men. This doen't mean you are homosexual of course... because I really don't understand why women would ever love men. Neither do any women but they do though so... what do you think?

2007-05-19 09:07:00 · 12 answers · asked by n0luckz 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, hopefully some of you know this game.
Boff, marry, kill:

Osama bin Laden, George Bush, Bill Clinton

2007-05-19 09:05:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce