ok so im in junior highschool and i dated a boy one grade older than me for about 3 months, then we broke up. its been 4 months since the break up and just a few days ago hes been writting me notes non stop. saying that he misses me, and he thinks we should go to the movies sometime. but im worried because when we used to go to the movies we would always make out, so im thinking all he really wants is just a make out buddy because he is lonely right now? im not sure?
anyways last night i went to a school banquet and looked stunning. i got all dressed up because i knew he would be there and i really like him. i was expecting him to notice me. he didnt. he didnt notice me at all. he didnt even talk to me or anything. it was so confusing. i mean there were guys there that told me i looked great. one guy even asked me to dance.
so whats going on? is he just playing games? was he just nervous? does he actually like me or not? HELP.
2007-05-19 09:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by angle1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. He sounds like a jerk.
2007-05-19 09:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a jerk! I'm sorry but he should make up his mind if he likes you or not. If I were you I would tell him to find another girlfriend because I wouldn't go out with him. If he just wants a make-out buddy then he's a loser. He is probably just playing games with you. It doesn't sound like he's nervous if he can make-out with you. Best of luck to you!
2007-05-19 16:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by katiecat8669 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the biggest trouble with teens is that they contemplate the "What ifs" and the "Whys" too much. It's OK to say that you like him, rather than just sort of "Stew" about it and think the worst but that you want to get to know hime more on a social level and a personal level too and not just as his kissing practice-dummy. Be up front but set limits and make it very clear that you are not ready for a sexual relation if you think that may be what is on his mind.
2007-05-19 16:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like that aren't there for you. they are only thinking about what they want and it's usually action. not saying all guys are like that but apparently he is. If he was really in it for you and he actually liked you and wanted to be with you like he says, he would make more of an effort like at the dance/banquet thing. don't get your heart broken over a guy that is just in it for his own pleasure. there are plenty more guys out there that are better for you!!!
2007-05-19 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you two are broken up. What part of that don't you understand.? That means that you go on with your life and forget him. Go out with the guy who asked you to a dance. You will be so much happier if you do. Good luck!
2007-05-19 16:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if he can't notice you it is his loss. He must of just looking for a make out session. Don't waste your time on a guy like this. He will only cause you heartbreak. It sounds to me like there are plenty of good guys out there noticing you, give one of them a chance.
2007-05-19 16:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by brit_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i dont really know the answer to this. but as much as guys think girls are hard to understand, guys are just as confusing. there are things that you will never know. its wierd, guys are wierd. but you gotta love their retarded asses. haha
2007-05-19 16:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋