There's this guy that I'm good friends with, and he's in all of my classes at school. Ive liked him a few times, and we dated for a week. While we were dating, we barely talked, so we decided it was pointless. I like him again. Well, some of the time, he's really nice and compliments me, and we laugh a lot together. he says things like "you have nice legs, you smell really good." I always wonder if he likes me. Other times, he can be pretty annoying. The other day, he moved each of his feet around mine (doesn't make sense) and didn't move them for a while. Whenever he gets near me he doesn't move, and does other suggestive things.
Also, the other day I kept telling him to go to the movies with me and some friends and he told me to do something kinda vulgar, "[insert vulgar action here], and I'll go." and I said okay as a joke, and he was like "Really?! Alright!" I know it may seem just like, a dirty joke, but he doesn't say those kinds often.
I just want to know if he likes me too.
2007-05-19 09:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by eightlegzzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Meant to say "those kinds of things"* up there.
2007-05-19 09:15:08 · update #1
He doesn't know I like him, and I don't
really act like it, except for my natural flirty
side, I guess (haha). So, I doubt he's using me.
2007-05-19 09:26:30 · update #2
I think that you need to tell your guy friend that he is offensive, and that you do not appreciate the vulgar innuendos. Now, if you do not take offense, then you are leading him to believe that you might be interested in him in an intimate way. Personally, he does not sound like bf potential. You already went that route once and it did not work out. I don't think he is a candidate to be a true friend either. If he is okay just some of the time, then I definitely know that I would not want him to be a bf, and as a best guy friend, I would question his behavior, because he seems to be self centered. This guy probably likes you, however, I do not think his intentions are pure, or honorable. I think he is out for himself first, and you are second.
2007-05-27 05:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think he may be taking an advantage of the fact that you like him. Boys have a tendency to do this. They will flirt with you, give you compliments and make you feel great. Then they tend to ignore you and turn to others. Guys like these are just users, they only come to you when they want something from you.
2007-05-19 09:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your best friends, but he said he'd love to get to know you better.. I'm getting the impression that he is being flirty.. But he might just be leading you on a bit. A lot of guys do that.. Just get to know him better and he might tell you his feelings soon.. Don't get to like him too much though, because you could get hurt.
2016-05-17 15:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by gale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same way you do and is not sure if you like him. If he's fearful of rejection, then he may make those snide comments so that he can play it off if you reject him. Have you thought about just being honest with him and asking him how he feels about you? If you acknowledge your feelings to him first, maybe he'll be more likely to answer you honestly. Good luck!
2007-05-27 07:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by marathonbdogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for dat kind of guy its hard to tell but if he was playin footsies wit ya and stuff then he might have a lil crush on u like u do on him.just ask him is all i can say.if hes a friend friends kind of guy he'll tell u but if he doesn't like to tell dat kind of stuff he wont tell u.just keep an eye out for him and ask some of ya friends too......=) bof!!!!
2007-05-27 08:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's in and out horny. Plain and simple.
2007-05-19 09:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like you..who would like someone like you?
2007-05-27 08:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋