I was on aim the other night and talking to this really cute guy. He asked me out, but he said i was totaly cute, but was really flat-chested. (which i am, I have NO boobs) But anyway....should i still go out with him? or is it normal for his age(12) here is are convo: (im lexi_girl543 lol)
lexi_girl543: hry
lexi_girl543: hey*
bretoff2: hey, whts up?
lexi_girl543: nm jc u?
bretoff2: yea same, i have a question
bretoff2: kinda important
lexi_girl543: yes...???
bretoff2: Do you want to go out with me?
bretoff2: your so cute, ur flatchested, but ur cute, athletic and nice.
lexi_girl543: ummmmmm
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2007-05-19 09:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, 4 nice words and 1 negative, considering his age he's probably just not smart enough not to say everything that comes to mind yet. So, if you like him nothing wrong with going out with him, whatever going out for a 12 year old is I have no idea anyway.
2007-05-21 06:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by beavanjb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just gave you a back-handed compliment. You're cute, but flat chested? He didn't have to mention the flat chested part! He needs to think before he talks or types again. If you like him, give him a chance, but make sure that you mention that you were upset by the flat chest comment.
2007-05-19 16:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by ..... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not, he was just busting your bubbles. Many girls are full of themselves such that they have to bring you down to earth before you can stop pretending to be the next best thing. This is usaully done to very hot chicks so that they know that they are wasting thier time by playing hard to get
2007-05-19 16:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by loxzibit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it sounds rude. and if he feels comfortable saying that to you without considering your feelings..and you haven't even begun dating.. what kind of rude and innapropriate comments can you expect in a relationship with him? It wasn't an awful thing to say..but it was inconsiderate and innapropriate..and if he was interested in dating you to get to know YOU, then he wouldn't of mentioned anything about your body.. someone who wants to know you for the real you, inside...would be more considerate than this. I would'nt bother with him..
2007-05-19 16:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by CoCo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's your opinion. Being called flat chested isn't necessarily an insult.
~Kristen
2007-05-19 16:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well. i would ask him about it, and act offended to see what his reaction is. if he feels bad and is like "no im sorry i didnt mean to hurt ur feelings" then thats good but if hes like "well...u are" then thats not good. and anyways you guys are young, you'll get boobs soon.dont worry about it. haha goodluck
2007-05-19 16:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats normal for u to be flatchested, anyways he is just being honest, go for it
2007-05-19 16:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he knows you're flat chested and he still wants you as a girlfriend...i'd yes. he doesn't sound like a jerk or a bad guy.
2007-05-19 16:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ew. he shouldnt be commenting on your breasts at 12 ¬_¬ go for it if you like him though xx
2007-05-19 16:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by specialfizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a shot--if you like him
2007-05-19 16:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Don M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋