ok we had an assembly and my friends and i decided that we wanted to sit at the top of the bleachers. so then i was about to sit near my guy friend that my friend likes. then my friend pushed me and we were at the TOP of the bleachers and i alomost fell down them. it seems like everytime my guy friend and i hang out he thinks that we are gonna start making out. me and my guy friend are better friends than him and her are so i guess she is like really jealous. she also is "accidentally" hitting me everday at school. should i tell her i dont want to be friends with her anymore cuz of what she does to me?
P.S.-when she almost made me fall down the bleachers i had to sit by my other friend cuz i was about to push her down the bleachers if i had sat by her any longer
2007-05-19 09:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by PandA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HEY PERSON THAT SAID IM FREAKING FLIRTING WITH MY DUDE FRIEND IM NOT! I HANG OUT WITH HIM CUZ HES MY FRIEND STOP JUST ASSUMING THAT I FLIRT WITH HIM!!!!and i hang out with him cuz hes my friend der
2007-05-19 09:22:37 · update #1
oh and when said it seems like very time my guy friend and i hang out he thinks we are gonna start making out i meant it seems like SHE thinks we are gonna start making out
2007-05-19 09:44:03 · update #2
she also gets jealous cuz my dude friend messes with my hair but thats cuz we are like brother and sister friends cuz i treat my dude friend like a brother since i have a sister
2007-05-19 09:53:14 · update #3
she's jealous. she doesn't sound like a good friend at all. don't be her friend. dump her. and make a new friend. friends don't do dat to each other.
2007-05-19 09:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always forgive. That's incredibly important. If you don't you will just be eaten by your anger. Now forgiving her doesn't mean that you allow her to treat you badly and say nothing. You need to tell her how much she scared you... and you need to clear up what is going on between you and this guy friend for her. Tell her no guy is worth loosing a friend over. However It's high school Drama will insue no matter what you do. Just try to do right by people. Ask your guy friend what he thinks too. Girls will get jealous that's the nature of the beast. However, rubbing things in peoples faces to make them Jealous is worse. If you two are just friends tell her that so she won't feel threatened by you. And if she's still threatened well she has issues and you really can't do anything about it. But trust me... it's all drama and it always will be... I remember I had a dear guy friend in high school... never were romantic at all.. and his girlfriend HAAATED me. Why because he and i had been friends longer than they'd been dating and when she treated him badly he would vent to me. We were friends that's what friends do.. and some people are just too immature to deal with that. of course the funny thing about that story... about 4 years later about my junior year in college... the guy friend and i... started dating... and now we're married... 5 years last march... and that girl... still hates me... so maybe she had a reason to be jealous LOL woopsy
Some high school drama never goes away... even when you're almost 30... siiiigh
2007-05-19 09:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jembee1720 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well what you have to think is are you really close with your friend. if you are than talk to her about it and explain that you think that the way she acted was stupid and she shouldnt be jelous, if she denise it then just give her some space and hopefully she will realise. on the other hand of your not that close than just simply tell her that you dont want to be friends with her because she gets to worked up about little things, and hey she might even apologies and you can go back to being friends.
hope that works xx
2007-05-19 09:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so childish. Pushing people down the bleachers and possibly getting hurt. Haven't you got anything better to do?
2007-05-19 09:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her how you feel about her. if i were you then i would tell her i didn't want to be her friend anymore, especially if she is doing this over a guy or because of a guy that isn't even right.
2007-05-19 09:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, yes. But you must confront her about her angry outburst. Tell her unless she is honest with you about what is going on with all of the violence, you don't feel safe around her. She can call you up she she gets some help or figures out what is the problem!
2007-05-19 09:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Joan H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to talk to your friend about whether or not her priorities are to choose some guy she doesn't know over you if she is getting this jealous you might not want to continue this friendship.
2007-05-19 09:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but if your friend really likes this guy, then you should back off flirting with him, because it's probably upsetting her! if her friendship doesn't mean so much then i'd tell her where to go and ditch your friendship. The hurting you is irrelevent, talk about it with her, if she can't talk then just ditch.
2007-05-19 09:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by specialfizz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tink you oughtta get your friend whacked. I kin do the job for ya. For like 2 grand.
2007-05-19 09:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you dont need friends like that. just be the better person. when she keeps calling beging for your nuts to come back tell her whats wrong.
2007-05-19 09:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋